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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I cant seem to stop cheating on my boyfriends! I've lost a guy I really loved because of it. Please help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - i cant seem to stop cheating on my boyfriends. I done it once and it caused so much hurt i vowed never to do it again but its like i just cant say no! please help me. i've already lost the lad i love and so i really need help... (50 words)

My Mum died and I miss her so badly. Any advice in helping me get through this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - Hey guys! I know this isnt relevent to this site but i lost my mum in march the 14th this year and im finding it very hard to move on. Ive resorted to booze to ease the pain. I dont want to do this but i cant see any other other way and my life seems pointess. Im 17 years old ... (172 words)

He doesnt even know I exist, but friends say he would be perfect, how do I approach him ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 603 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - There is this person my friends have told me about, and they say I'd be perfect with him. Thing is, I know more about him then he knows about me at all... In other words he doesn't even know I exist. I really would like to get to know him better, but I don't know the right ap... (63 words)

Im 17 hes 15, we have a sexual relationship that our are aware although know its illegal, is this allowed ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 603 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - i am 17, i have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now.only problem being hes younger than me, hes nearly 15. i know its strange but hes not your average 15 yr old mentally and physically. weve grown realy close, in a stable relationship and have been sleping with each other ... (132 words)

My husband of 12 years said he didnt love me and we seperated, could it be he was depressed!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 601 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - is there anyone out there that has been through or currently going through what i am at the moment cause i could really do with different peoples opinions on this one, i did put something on here a few days ago but did not really explain very well, well here goes after twelve ... (274 words)

Cant bare the fact hes going away to university and this will be us over, hes soooo perfect!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 603 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - I have completely and utterly fallen for someone over the last seven months, completely! Ive never felt this way before, and i know this must seem like the everyday love story, but it really does take a lot for anyone to impress me, and my god this person has! he is everything ... (305 words)

He says he wants nothing to do with our baby, but his mum does

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 604 days ago

16 September 2006 (F)

- im pregnant by my ex and were now not talking but his mum is causing me loads of hassle he said he wants nothing to do with baby but his mum does and wants a dna test. i also dont want any child support from him can i be forced to have a dna test even if im not asking for c... (73 words)

I've never met the boy I am going out with on chat, what would be cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 375 days ago

16 September 2006 (F)

- dear evyone i have a problem, this may seem stupid but i have kinda ben going out wiv this lad i mt online in a chat room we have never met though so im nt sure if it wud b cheating if i went out wiv this lad thts in my class at schhol? plz help i dnt no wat to do they both say ... (76 words)

I think that she likes me also

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 603 days ago

16 September 2006 (M) - I need some advice, I met a girl on a trip in france a few weeks ago, she was part of the group I was with. This girl is absolutely wonderful, she is pretty, funny and an absolute sweetheart. I think that she likes me also. we got on really well on the trip. The group is hav... (161 words)

Is it normal...for some men 'not' to have much ejaculate when the orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 603 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - Seems a strange question but I can't really get a feel on the web and thought i would ask in here. I have had sex with a man on quite a few occasions over the last year, we're not in a relationship and never will be, my question is about him ejaculating. With previous ... (163 words)

Do I go for my ex gf's best friend or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 603 days ago

16 September 2006 (M)

- Hello, well me and the girl i was seeing broke up a week ago, and im really starting to like her best friend, the girl i was seeing noticed we where getting closer and asked 'i see you and .... are getting close' then i said to her that i wouldnt get with her, even tho i want ... (89 words)

My husband looks very old and I'm ashamed to be seen in public with him! How do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - My husband is 43 but he looks atleast 55 - greying, balding and generally cares a damn. I'm 38 but look much younger (as per others) and often nowadays people mistake him for my father. Perhaps sounds really immature but I feel really ashamed to be with him in public. ( Not ... (65 words)

How do i cope with a long distance marriage? I don't feel missed very much. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 604 days ago

16 September 2006 (M) - How do i cope with a longdistance marriage? Well ive only been married for about a year 1/2 now and we have a 18months daugther. The problems i have is this is the first time my whole family have been separated and its affecting my marriage with her because she goes out eve... (219 words)

In a long distance relationship-what do you do about your sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 604 days ago

16 September 2006 (M) - In a long distance relationship. What do you do about your sex drive?... (14 words)

We are meeting up for sex and we have phone, sex too. Now he wants me to urinate on him...is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 604 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - Im seeing this guy who we meet up every couple of weeks to have sex and we call each other during the week to have phone sex, but he asked me to urinate on him, im fine with this i think its fun but is this normal??? x ... (48 words)

Some of her exes keep professing their love for her. I think she should cut the ties with these ex's. What do you all think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 603 days ago

16 September 2006 (M) - My ex-fiance and I are trying to get back together to make it work. After being back with her for a couple of days i'm starting to withdraw from her again because of one important issue i am having problems with. Her and her ex's. From the moment that i met her, i knew she... (459 words)

Are people in long distance relationships more likely to cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 598 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - Are people in long distance relationships more likely to cheat?... (10 words)

I can only orgasm when I touch myself during sex. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 602 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - I have a new boyfriend and I am hopelessly attracted to him sexually. He makes me weak at the knees and turns me on like no one else ever has. The problem is that we recently started having sex. He does everthing right and it feels great, but I am always only able to cum, ... (168 words)

what do guys like in girls..tall, slim, blonde or short, petite, curvy, brunette??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - hi... im a teenager and wanna know, y would teenage guys want a tall, thin blonde girl to go out with? Wouldnt they prefer someone who is shorter than them? Cos my boy mates all always say "oh theres this really fit girl, she's tall and blonde yum". y do they like that... (89 words)

I love this guy to pieces and I want to see him more..but he spends so much time with his family! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 603 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - SOS! I've been with my boyfriend now for 3 weeks and I love him to pieces..He's everything I want and need and he makes me soooooo happy! We both live in the same city but different sides so it can be a pain gettin to and from to see each other. Lately though im lucky ... (154 words)

We're both married to other people but we are unable to let each other know how much we like each other. How do we do this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 602 days ago

16 September 2006 (M) - HI ALL I AM WORKING IN A COMPANY, I AM MARRIED ALSO, I LIKE ONE OF MY LADY COLLEGUE, SHE IS ALSO MARRIED. SHE LIKES ME AND TALK WITH ME ETC. BUT BOTH OF US UNABLE TO TRANFER OUR WISHES OR MIND.. SO HOW CAN I DO IT... (48 words)

How do I really tell if my teacher likes me and if he does..how do we move things forward?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 574 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I am 17 and really like a teacher at my school. he is just turned 23 and and was a student teacher here last year too. We started getting on really well during a school trip at the end of last year but i don't know if he feels the same way about me as i do about him. we... (159 words)

This boy at school pokes me, bangs into me and teases me in front of his friends. Do you think he likes me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 604 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - hi im 15. Would u say my boy mate fancies me cos if he sees me in the corridor he pokes me or bangs into me as a joke and smiles. hes the same age as me. And sometimes when i am sitting down eating my lunch he says to one of his mates "oh if u want any sexual advise then... (153 words)

I like this guy a lot but haven't told him. Now he's dating someone else and set me up with his friend! what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 604 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm a very shy person and I haven't had any relation ship for a long time (a few years). Now I fell in love with a friend. I don't know if he understood that I like him that much. But yesterday during a party he tried to make a match between me and a friend of him. This is ... (122 words)

Engaged for 4 years and he bores me to death! How do I end this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 604 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - I have ben dating my boyfriend for almost 7 years and have been engaged for almost 4 of them. But now I feel nothing more than friendship with him, and he's like a security balnket for me. How do I end it, because I'm going through the "How do I leave what is secure for the ... (163 words)

My bf is a homebody-I love excitement and going places. I am bored..so what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 604 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 yrs. While I am 22 and he is 24, I feel like as a couple we are 80 yrs old! Just to paint a picture of our current situation...We both recently graduated college and he got a job and now lives 2hrs away and I see him about 6 days ... (182 words)

I'm terrified of losing him...how do I get over this fear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 604 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - I'm really in love with this guy who I think really loves me, too. We've been together almost two years now - sort of off/on for a while in the middle, but we're working things out now, and I think we're a good match. The problem is that I'm terrified of losing him.... (259 words)

I'm torn...I'm moving to England to be with my guy but not sure if I can my friends and family behind.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 587 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - Hello guys, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 4 years now, been friends for six. A lot of it was long distance because I was going to college in the U.S. and he lives in the UK. I spent a year studying abroad in the UK and looved it. Well now I've a... (221 words)

My bf has to marry his ex gf because he got her pregnant. It's tearing me apart!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend early this year, but we have known eachother all our lives. He breaks up with me because he has a moral duty to an ex girlfriend he got pregnant. He now has to marry her. My boyfriend comes from a strict christian family. He says he has to give u... (88 words)

We split but we are taking the kids on a holiday. Is there a chance we can reconnect while we are away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 602 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - me and my husband split up 2 weeks ago but are still going on holiday in 2 weeks time for the sake of the children, do you think there is any chance for us to get back together while we are away.... (43 words)