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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it possible to find a man who really cares and he's not just after sex? How do you know when a guy is not a waste of time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6095 days ago

19 September 2006 (F)

- I have a simple question...about opinion on love life Is it possible to find a man who really cares and he's not just after sex and in addition you like him and care about too? Is it a question of not being too picky maybe? Why is it hard not to find such a good situatio... (97 words)

I was mean to my ex and want him back. Should I keep trying or just give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6405 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend about a year ago and met someone else who I know now was a rebound. I did not really end the relationship with my ex that nicely. The rebound guy insisted that I call my ex and tell him goodbye while Mr rebound was sitting right there. My ex called ... (153 words)

I can't seem to make friends! I'm a nice person so why is this happening?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - i dont know why but i just cant seem to make friends! im a nice sensitive honest person, maybe too nice? when i had friends in the past, they just stopped talking to me and i never knew why? i used to hang out with 3 other people and now they dont call me or text me anymore, i ... (74 words)

I can't get this girl outta my head! Everytime I see her the feelings come back What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

19 September 2006 (M) - hi, last year i fell for this girl knowing that she had a boyfriend. things didnt go well and i havent spoke to her since then. thing is that after a year i am still mad about her and i cant have a proper relationship with another girl because everytime i see her strong ... (79 words)

He cheated on me and I saw him doing it...but he doesn't know that I know! How do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I have a problem that I do not know how to solve. I have been dating an older (I am 26 he is 43) and divorced guy (no children) for almost a year and about two months ago I found out that he cheated on me (I spied on him in front of his appartment because I had my ... (1001 words)

He is marriage phobic! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - my bf is already divorced for very long years., when we meet he said he got no problem anymore and it is really true since i meet personally his ex-wife and we are ok. but my bf has a trauma in his life. he is scared of getting married again worried that maybe after getting ... (193 words)

I love my husband, but I dont feel as though he loves me. I feel so alone..what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - i love my husband, but i dont feel as though he loves me. he never wants to spend time alone with me or tells me he loves me. he always puts me down and makes fun of me when other people are around. he never wants to talk about our relationship. i feel so alone and have no idea ... (82 words)

My parents would flip if they knew I was dating 'Superman"...what should I do? (long post)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I need help. I am 20 years old and so is my boyfriend, I'll call him Superman. We started going out on 20th March 2004. I have been with my boyfriend for exactly 2 years and 6 months on 20th September. I love him so much and I would do anything for him. My parents do... (1600 words)

Is it possible to roll back foreskin and have it stay there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (M) - ive seen pictures or drawings of penises where the fore skin is rolled back and it stays there.how does this happen?... (21 words)

He wanted to break up but said he still loved me...is he only saying he loves me to make it easier for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend has just moved away to university and i've stayed at home. Its not far, maybe 25 minuites on the train, we always said we'd stay together, until the day he went, we hadn't seen each other for a couple of weeks before he went because we were both busy and thats what ... (261 words)

I have unusual bleeding after having sex...what could be wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Ive had sex with only two partners as i am not as mature as most people. Sex with my first partner was fine and it was fine with the second also, at the start. Ive had sex 5 times, twice with the first and three times with the second. after my 4th time i began to bleed. (it ... (88 words)

I'm a virgin and I'm curious...what does the girl do during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - ok well im a virgin and i was really curious on what girls normally do during sex im kinda lost im this church type girl and so i dont know much about sex.... (33 words)

Should i wait for him to love me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Should I wait for him? The man I hope to spend the rest of my life with is still not ready to move on with our relationship. His wife left him 3 yrs ago and we got together within weeks. He only wants me there when his kids are around. He hasn't told me he loves me but i know ... (183 words)

He's my boss, he's married and i love him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6373 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - i am 23 years old girl in love with my boss. He is married and has 2 kids. He's ready to leave his family for me. We are so much in love that we want to be together as soon as possible. We kissed each other passionately and that resulted in sex. Now i want to make him all mine ... (65 words)

My husband hardly wants to sleep with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I’m 25 yeas old I write from USA, I have been married for one month, we have been together for two years, before I mead my husband my sex life was very active, my previous boyfriend and I hade sex 2 or 3 sometimes 4 times a day, him and I were very attract to each other. ... (180 words)

Married guy from work likes me so now his best mate is asking me a lot of questions? Did he put his put his friend up to this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6419 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - At the last Christmas party a colleague confessed all to me that he had fancied me for 18 months, (he is married) and wants us to be together, he isn't with his soul mate etc... We got off with each other but nothing else happened. Last weekend his close mate interrogated me ... (173 words)

It's bothers me that my bf won't tell his buddy to stop sending explicit e-mails of naked women! Am I over-reacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Please help! I need to know if I am overreacting. My B/F doesn't look at porn on the internet, but he has a married friend from work who constantly sends emails with video clips, or pictures of either half naked women or plain porn! I found out that some of the emails were like ... (273 words)

I need a baby to get my life in order and to smile again. Is this a good idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Well im 18 years old. i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years altogether with like a 2 month break. when we got back together we slept together and i thought i was pregnant my period then came 3 weeks late but all the signs pointed to pregnacy. when it came i was heart... (195 words)

Wanted..someone to go on holidays with. Do any of you know of good singles holidays, or friendship clubs you can recommend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, I wonder can anyone give me a bit of advice please? I live in the north west of england. I'm single, have lots of friends, but no-one to go on holiday with! All my mates are married or in relationships. Do any of you know of good singles holidays, or friendship ... (116 words)

He likes me and someone else at the same time...I want to pull away but I can't! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5855 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - well, i feel there is no one at home or school i can turn to. it seems pathetic. but here i go, theres a boy, i spent my summer with him, now he likes me and someone else, he cant make his mind up, i keep trying to pull away, but i feel like i love him. what do i do? its ... (65 words)

SITE NEWS: New features? What other sites do you use? .. and please tell a friend!

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

19 September 2006 (M)

- Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here! I ask this periodically... 1. What new features would you like to see? 2. What other websites do you use regularly? 3. Where are you from? Thanks to all the agony aunts, moderators and of course those with problems who ask for he... (113 words)

I can only have sex when the girl is on top...is this normal for a guy's first time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (M) - please someone help me, when I go to have sex I can only do it when the girl is on top, i have only done it once and i was perfectly sober but we first tried standing up but i couldnt do it then with me on top we tried for at least 15mins just to get started but it wasn't for ... (106 words)

Should I marry someone I am not in love with?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Hello Agony Aunts and Uncles, My question is.....is it ok to settle with someone that you love but are not in love with?? I am debating as to whether marry my man, who is extremely good to me......however, I do know that I am not in love with him. I'm 33 and would like ... (122 words)

He flirts with other girls constantly and it's bugging me...am I over reacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - My bf and I went out in december and the thing that really bugged me about him was the fact that he flirts with everybody. We broke up a month or so later but we got back together again in june. This time around things have been much better as we've talked about a lot of stuff ... (230 words)

My fiancee said it was either he goes or my smoking goes! But I have snuck smokes when he was away. Help me please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - omg i dont no what to do my fiance told me 2 pick between him or fags and i picked him of course cos i love him so much problems is i love fags and he made me promise i wouldnt smock so i did and he away on holiday with his ex and kidz and the day with my m8s i had a fag well ... (104 words)

She's taken, my hearts breaking!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (M) - i love a girl thats already going out with someone what do i do?... (14 words)

I keep losing my erection...why is this happening?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

19 September 2006 (M) - I have a problem keeping my erection during sex.Ive started seeing this guy and we recently started having sex, I found it really hard to cum as well, even masterbating with him didnt help, I just kept losing my erection. Why do you this is happening? Im really into this guy ... (66 words)

My husband isnt happy that im pregnant as he said it will spoil long haul holidays! Will he come around as I really want this baby!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I have found out I am pregnant. I am happy, just turned 39 and believed infertile. Suffer from PCOS, overweight and smoke, high blood pressure, so not alot going for me. Found out this weekend and am over the moon. But my partner of 2 years is not. Says we wont be able to ... (126 words)

In her mind her relationship is over, we see each other quite a bit, how can I give her the confidence to leave him ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (M) - Hello all. I met a girl about 2 months ago, who is currently living with her boy friend. In her mind it is over with them, but he bullies her emotionally, making her think shes the one whos always in the wrong. He smokes a lot of weed, and never does anything to help her. ... (239 words)

When does a women ovulate on the pill ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I know it seems like a silly question (makes me seem young). But I'm seriously not very experienced... So, when does a woman ovulate? If I'm on the pill, how does that work?... (36 words)

Should I be getting this much discharge ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - How much discharge should a woman have? I use my liner all the time. I just wonder if it's normal to be wet all the time. If I don't wear my liner (ex. wear a thong), it gets my underwear all wet. It's getting very annoying and I'm wondering if anyone can tell me anything about ... (63 words)

Should I tell the guy at work how I feel ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - there's a guy in work I'm crazy about. we are friends, the thing is I think Ive fallen for him big time. I know he has a girlfriend but its killing me to see him every day and want him. I'm considering leaving my job because of this. Should I tell him how I feel?... (56 words)

Do long distance relationships ever work ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - hey i need help big style, im still not really over my ex and i need 2 b i think about him every day and we split up cause his lil boy died and went bk 2 his ex!! anyways i have met loads of new guys jus dont feel like goin out with them as i am only 17 i feel like im 2 young ... (138 words)

How can I get my man to the docs to get these "Stress Spots" removed ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F)

- Hello there I have been with my boyfriend for a year now and I have noticed that on his penis he has some weird looking white spots. I have said something to him but he said that he has had them before and that they are due to stress. The thing is I am not stupid and I kn... (224 words)

I get panic attacks when my guy has to go away for a bit, its driving me mad, how can I deal with this better??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F)

- Please help me as I feel as though im going mad. I really like my boyfriend, I guess you could say im in love even though we haven't said that yet. He goes away with work and its not for a major long time but the feelings I have are driving me nuts. Everyone keeps tell... (279 words)

My bf blames me for everything, we broke up, I had a miscarriage, he treats me bad but I love him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Wrote earlier when I was pregnant. My bf blames me for everything. I had a miscarriage at 16 weeks. My bf blames me for telling his parents that I was pregnant. I know I did not do it but he blames me for it. His parents got sick because of it. My bf was not with me ... (352 words)

How do I get the ex to leave me alone ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F)

- Hi. I dated a guy about 4 years ago, then he moved across the country and is now back. He contacted me shortly after getting in the area to get together and I told him that I was married. Then suggested that he and I get together. I said okay, but only if my husband could ... (273 words)

How are you supposed to feel in between seeing your boyfriend ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - this is kind of a random question....how are you supposed to feel when you're by yourself after your boyfriend has finished spending time with you and until you get to meet again?... (32 words)

Been dating 2 months and I still dont have that big of an attraction for him, hes so nice, will it grow in time ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I have been dating a guy for about 2 months now, just meeting up one evening a week and texts occasionally. I think he really likes me, he says he wants to see me more (I am just finishing my studies so am incredibly busy until the end of the month) and he says that he hopes I ... (207 words)

My Bf broke up with me, told me he loves me to bits but cant be with anymore!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Hey! Bad news, my bf and I have split up. He text me saying he loves me to bits but doesnt wanna be with me anymore. How can i get over him and become a single girl who's over it? I'm dreading seeing him happy with someone else. I did every thing for him, gave him hundreds of ... (109 words)

Is it normal for a guy of 22 to act a bit of pervert in public ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - This may sound like a really daft question!! I've had just one serious boyfriend and have only just got serious with him a few months ago. We went on a foreign holiday, but it felt like he is a real perve whilst away - constantly feeling my bum when i was lying on the sunbeds ... (99 words)

Im 22 and never had a serious relationship, where can I meet guys that will love me for who I am ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Hi all, okay im 22 and have never been in a serious relationship and its really getting me down. I havent been happy about my weight for the last couple of years and have been dieting and exercising but the weight just isnt shifting. All my friends are georgous slim and can ... (97 words)

He says he loves his cats more than more!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and 4 months and in the beginning everything was really good. He used to be really sweet and tell me that he loved me more than anything and that I meant everything to him, but recently I've discovered that he only said those ... (188 words)

Will the fact she had an ovary removed reduce our chances of having a baby ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are trying for a baby. She has all the signs but im still doubtful because she has had a ovary removed, does anyone kno if this will cause problems with me getting her pregnant? Plez help any advice on conciving tip would be a great help too.... (53 words)

Why wont he just admit he is jealous, admit he has feelings for me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Hi ya, hope you can help, im in a situation with a male friend basically I have told him I love him, he wont make any comment to the fact that I love him and basically I have given up telling him how I feel for fear of rejection. The one problem I have is I cant tell if my ... (212 words)

I live with my boyfriend, but his ex wife is constantly in contact Im so worried he will get back with her! Please help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Please Help, I am so sad. I have been living with my boyfriend for 9 months, and i love him very much. Recently his ex wife wont leave him alone. She makes every excuse to see him, even using thier children to black-mail him. they are not little 16 and 19. Also i found text ... (185 words)

Im Begining to feel a bit suffocated, and a bit touchy about time alone, am I being over sensitive ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (M) - Hi everyone. Ive been in my relationship now for about a year almost and its been steady and a happy one.Things has been really good and still is but i dont know why i feel this but my partner keeps telling me how much they love me etc and how special i am and how ive changed ... (236 words)

Just started dating again and wondered how I would know if he likes me ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I am a girl in her late twenties and just started dating again. How do you know if a guy really likes you, how will he act etc? A guy has taken me out a couple of times and I think he really likes me and he says he does but I am not sure, as sometimes he leaves it a few ... (89 words)

My Long distance guy proposed, but I've Cheated!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for the last 6 months, now he has proposed. but I cheated on him, with this guy at my school I am still seeing him and I think my feelings are divided, I'm actualy supposed to meet his parents when I get back home. I ... (80 words)

Things were going really great, and we were always in contact, he hasnt however replied to my last text has he gone off me ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Dear Cupids, I am 25 and I have been out with a guy a couple of times, he is 4 years older. A few months back I split with my long-term boyfriend - although we had been on and off for ages. Things have been going very well with this new man and we have been in contact ... (162 words)

Does this girl fancy me ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

19 September 2006 (M) - In a nightclub this girl kept looking at me and pulling me up to dance. She keeps trying to talk to me. Does she fancy me?... (32 words)

She constantly chats about her ex's stays in contact with alot of "male" friends and leaves me sexually unsatisfied! What should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

19 September 2006 (M) - Hi, I have been seeing a lady I met off of the internet for about 4 months now and for the first month it was amazing. The only problem I had was that she constantly talked about her ex-boyfriends. All the time. And she still does. Then things got a bit bizarre. In bed, she... (417 words)

Does anyone know of a sex shop nr Mill Hill ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Is there a sex toy shop, suitable for a 75 years old widow, near mill hill, london?... (17 words)

Why is he getting sexual for, if he wasn't in the mood

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

19 September 2006 (F)

- I am wondering is this normal? My b/f and I have a happy loving relationship. We are an older couple. He is quite highly sexed for a 56yr old, but has said he loves me to play with him, even if he does'nt 'come'. What do you think he means by this? If he wants me to play w... (222 words)

I am extremely nervous to go visit my Boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

19 September 2006 (F)

- This is going to sound like a daft question as its not totally about help with my bf but here goes. I really like my bf but he travels a lot Im due to go and visit him while he is away but am extreemly nervous as I have never spent a few nights away from home before. I fe... (133 words)

I think my mum is having an affair

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

19 September 2006 (F)

- I think my mum is having an affair. About 5 or 6 years ago, whilst taking my younger brother to school, my mum met this man whose son was in the class as my brother. They got talking, and my mum was having problems with her computers, this man agreed to help. And really it w... (272 words)

He says he glad I contacted but He won't answer my calls now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I met a man 13 years older than myself 3yrs ago. We dated for 6mths until I moved across country. The only reason we quit seeing each other was because I moved. We seemed great together and I fell in love with him. We kept in touch but not often. Last year he called to say ... (245 words)

He is getting divorced and seems less happier

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - i live with a man who is getting divorced now and ever since we have moved in together he seems less happier to see me each day.... (27 words)

We love each other but all we do now is argue

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating now for 10 months and he just recently moved away for college and now all we seem to do is argue and treat each other horrible.. we both love eachother alot and want things to work out but i feel that i cant find the solution to the problem ... (59 words)

He says she is just a friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6422 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - My bf had relationship with his ex for 4 yrs. they broke up sometime last year. I've been with him for almost a year and he still keeps his ex's clothes and call his ex once a month. I asked him and he said that he doesn't have any feeling for her but just friend. I'm not happy ... (68 words)

I can't stay on top

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - My boyfrind and i have sex a lot but im finding myself having a problem. he can stay on top for a long time but i cant. my legs start to hurt and i get tired. i want to stay on top much longer. am i doing something wrong? is there something i can do? an exercise?... (57 words)

I only use the pill when I see him, could I get pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - okay here's my question, I really hope that someone has any advice for me. Me and my fiancee are in a long distance relationship. I was on the pill last time I saw him (mid august) but messed up on it a couple times while visiting(time change, only been on it for 2 wks etc) ... (217 words)

What is this white stuff?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - hello, i was just wondering if anyone knows what this white stuff is that i find in my underwear sometimes. its like a paste almost and some days there's more than others. thankyou!... (33 words)

I need ideas on how to keep my jealousy under control!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

19 September 2006 (M) - Hi there, I'm hoping you can help me out here! I'm in a 9-months-and-counting long-distance relationship with a girl quite a bit younger than me. By long distance I mean, an hour drive and I only get to see her on weekends (this is very hard on me sometimes). By younger,... (507 words)

I am hurting so much after our breakup - when will my broken heart mend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I'm hurting really bad. My days are consumed with thoughts. I need to know I will forget him and I will have a normal life. I cannot give details for I fear someone I know will read this. I cannot discuss this with anyone. I can hold out and live through this pain if someone ... (77 words)