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writes: My first love of 7 yrs has been conversing with me on the phone; although he is engaged we still have a very good relationship. Since we broke up we have had sex a couple of times me knowing he has a soon to be wife. He called and told me that something is wrong with him and he's not been himself since they met and this is true. I honestly still love him with all my heart but don't want to ruin the wedding because I'm trying to be happy for him. This had to be what he wanted or he wouldn't have asked her to marry. What do you think? Is it possible he's still interested in me just as I am with him? She's only been there for about 7 months compared to my years. Why didn't he ask me?
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reader, tayluv +, writes (8 January 2006):
As long as the man can get the milk free he will never buy the cow. He is not going to leave the situation alone as long as you keep allowing your feelings to confuse you with the fact that this man is getting great sex without any real attachments to you. He is playing with your heart but someone else is wearing his engagement ring.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2006): i have nearly the same problem!!! i dated brandan for 3 years, ready to marry him. his mother passed away, found out his ex was engaged. because of his mother's death, the ex starts calling him up again, they hang out, get closer again, 10 months later they are engaged, (the day after christmas) he gets back into town, and has been with me three times, telling me how great sex is with me, he wants friends with benefits with me, but i can't breathe a word of any of this to her, his fiance, or she'll dump him, and he doesn't want that either. he has made my life miserable, and i feel she deserves to know the truth, i even have pictures as proof. what do i do? and why is he doing this to us?!
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reader, StarNews +, writes (7 January 2006):
 Yes something is wrong with him. He is having sex with you when he is engaged to married, that is wrong. It's not fair to you or his bride to be. You love him enough to be happy for him and want the best for him, yet you are not included in his future plans. He sounds like he is out for his own hapiness and doesn't deserve either one of you. I think your question should be, "Would I want someone who cheats on his fiance?"
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