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My gf doesn't pay much attention to me anymore! What should I do?

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Question - (26 May 2007) 10 Answers - (Newest, 27 May 2007)
A male United States age 36-40, *iciousdave writes:

I feel so sad lately. Me and my girlfriend both still live with our parents, so we only see each other like every other weekend. She says she loves me and I love her too. But she doesn't french me anymore, and everytime she comes over she just spends time on my computer and not with me. We use to make out all the time and now she just peck kisses me even though I try to give some tongue. This is so sad for me.

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A male reader, Peterk5699 United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2007):

Peterk5699 agony auntYou should sit down with her and have a talk, try and get things going again. As someone said below - take her ot for a romantic meal with candlelight (optional of course) and hopefully the spark will start again.

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A male reader, viciousdave United States +, writes (27 May 2007):

viciousdave is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you guys. I found out the problems and we're working it out so well right now! More is love than ever! Thanks.

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A female reader, candy00s United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2007):

candy00s agony auntspend some time together without being near a computer or tv - have a talk about how you both feel and where you think your relationship is going.

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A female reader, Maureen Georgia +, writes (26 May 2007):

Don't stay in a useless relationship. Life's too short to stay stressed 24/7.

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (26 May 2007):

DV1 agony auntI think that she's using your computer to talk to someone else. You need to express your concerns to her, and most likely will have to break up with her. It seems like she's falling out of love with you, and you deserve to have someone who's willing to love you back.

DV1

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (26 May 2007):

DV1 agony auntI think that she's using your computer to talk to someone else. You need to express your concerns to her, and most likely will have to break up with her. It seems like she's falling out of love with you, and you deserve to have someone who's willing to love you back.

DV1

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (26 May 2007):

DV1 agony auntI think that she's using your computer to talk to someone else. You need to express your concerns to her, and most likely will have to break up with her. It seems like she's falling out of love with you, and you deserve to have someone who's willing to love you back.

DV1

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (26 May 2007):

kenny agony auntI think you have got to talk to her about how you are feeling, and that how you feel she has been a little distant recently. Why don't you do something romantic for her, take her out for a nice meal and she how she responds to this. Sometimes its so easy to lose that spark that you both once had, and it takes one of you to put it back in.

Good luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2007):

Listen Man

She has most probably found some one else to french as you put it the fact that you only see one another every other week gives her plenty of time to do the rounds as for being on the computer why dont you see who she is talking to. women com[plain about guys who dont give them much attention so what they do is start another relationship before leaving the present one. do yourself a big favour and kick her into touch then you can get your head together and move on the stronger from this experience. one other thing next time you'l see it coming.

Good luck Chas

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A female reader, jomana Egypt +, writes (26 May 2007):

jomana agony auntyou should ask her why did she change and according to this decide what your future actions will be

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