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*olostick23
writes:I don't know about most other young teen guys(I'm 16), but every time i get intimately involved with a girl, or just very close to her physically, i get somewhat aroused. What can i do to prevent this from "ruining" the moment? Reply to this Question
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reader, cuttieicy  +, writes (3 June 2007):
 it is normal for a guy arouse when she touches a girl.
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reader, polostick23 +, writes (27 May 2007):
polostick23 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot to everyone who responded. This information really helped. It used to be hard to ask questions like these, but a site like this really changed this.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (26 May 2007):
 I'm 22 and I still have a bit of that problem. It's natural. It's pharamones from the girl that do it to us. It's chemicals that we can't really control. Just try to think of something else, and hopefully, you'll gain a little composure.
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reader, Dagwood  +, writes (25 May 2007):
 Hi Polostick (!), this is quite normal for a guy of your age! Sorry I’m afraid but there are not too many ways of calming things down (besides chemicals but you don’t want to go there) at your age EXCEPT abstaining from the intimate contact. Have you tried masturbating before going out? This might help. Anyway, getting aroused should not really disturb the person you’re with as long as you keep your trousers firmly zipped up and dont do anything without consent! It seems as if you’re quite together as you don’t really seem to want to go “all the way”. Good for you, keep it up until you and your future partner are really ready, you’re young and have many years of a good relationships ahead. I’m sure you’ll do fine, take it easy and take care. D
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reader, carlyuk  +, writes (25 May 2007):
 hiya i'm a girl and i am in exactly the same position i posted a question earlier this week similar to your i got some reali gd answers. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-stop-myself-getting-so-overwhelmed.html I hope they help me as much as they have helped me
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