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writes:i love this guy more than life, i even did a spell to keep him when i lost him to my best friend. i no right pathetic! but it seems to have worked now this guy really likes me and is asking me back out. But now im not sure if i still love him! please help me decide whether or not i should keep him teh feelings still there im just not sure if i should :( thank youlost and confused
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reader, candy00s +, writes (27 May 2007):
 What the saying...we always want what we cant have....it makes the thing/person we cant have seem all the more attractive to us!
Then when we can have that person or thing we realise we dont want it as much as we thought!
Id take a bit of time to think about whether you want to be with him.
Tell him your not ready for a relationship and go out as mates, see if you want to be with him.
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (27 May 2007):
 You said you love this guy more than life, but now he wants you your not sure if you want him, well thats just typical of us ladies....
Best thing is to tell him your not ready for a relationship right now its not fair on him hun, no one can decide for you if you love him or not only you know your true feelings and this is what you need to tune into and make the right decission.....
He left your friend to be back with you so he obviously likes you a lot....did he leave you for her, is this why your not sure, are you wondering if you can trust him again?????
If this is the reason and its clouding your true feelings then let him know tell him your not prepaired to enter this relationship again for the same old thing to happen again as he hurt you......This may help you work out whats happening with your emotions (funny things I know), but don't hurt yourself nor him your both still very young with so many years of love coming and going, you will know when MR RIGHT is at your door hun I promise you that....
All the best good luck from
Donna xx
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reader, DV1  +, writes (27 May 2007):
 You need to figure out how you feel before you take any action. If you're not sure that you're ready to be in a relationship with him, tell him that you need time before you can give him an answer. Tell him in the meantime, if something better comes along, tell him to take it. He shouldn't have to wait around forever for you to decide. If you guys get together, and you're not sure how you're feeling, you're going to break his heart, and potentially lose any possibility of a friendship with him.
DV1
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reader, Helen Help! :) +, writes (27 May 2007):
 Hey huni
All you can do is be honest with your self and try to sort out your feelings if you do still like him then try it out if it doesnt work then it doesnt ull move on but i suppose its worth a shot and be careful with the magic make sure ur protecting your self and remember it always has a conseqence gd luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2007): ok well first of all i dont think that you should go out with him think about hes been with your best friend!come on its lie your havin her left overs friends should not share men boys whatever. and if he didnt like you then and likes you now well you know what it was his lost to not have you when he had the chance he chose another girl besides you your best friend at that do you really want to be with someone who didnt want to be with you. theres so many different guyz out there and if your not sure if you love/like him anymore then honey you dont because if you did you would know without a doubt.good luck
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