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He wants to still date this other chick but he also wants me to just wait around. Do I wait or move on?

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Question - (26 August 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2008)
A female New Zealand age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me ex split up with me about three months ago. I was his very first relationship ever and he didn't think he could go through with it knowing that there was a "what if".

Our relationship was heading straight down the aisle and he didn't think he could let it go that far without trying out other people first.

Now he has a new girlfriend and i know he's still in love with me and has even admitted it.

A few days ago we were in the car, we ended up making out, i don't know what to do, he wants to still date this other chick but he wants me to just wait around. Do i wait or move on?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008):

Who knows what his intentions are??...he might wind up staying with the other girl..and he may just want to keep you around just so he could have someone to fall back on just incase they do not work out...but just go out there and have fun!! You should go and meet other people also. And if it was meant to be then you all will certainly find your way back to each other(:

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (26 August 2008):

Honeygirl agony auntHello... is he serious??? Wait around while he dates another girl??? I think not!! Dont waste your time with him, go out and enjoy your life!

Honeygirl

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (26 August 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntWait around? He wants you to wait around? Nuts to that. Get out there and have some fun.

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A female reader, desperate_angel United States +, writes (26 August 2008):

desperate_angel agony auntHe still not sure about his decision whether who he will going to choose. Your the first came into his life and he has another one and he wants to make up with you. If he really loves you he will going to choose you no matter what. Then if he couldnt decide between the two "girls" in his life you should move on. Let him think and figure out some things in his mind. Both of you are still young and could have lots of things to learn in life. This is one of them learn from this girl. Goodluck and god bless.

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