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writes: A guy I have worked with for the past year told me that he liked me and he thought i was his soulmate. The problem is that he is engaged to be married to another woman. I have very strong feelings for him.I want to tell him not to marry her! I am 33 yrs old and he is only 20 yrs old. He has been with his girlfriend for 5 yrs, I want to tell him how I really feel, but I'm afraid to. I dont know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): Okay, so as you know time will eventually heal you. But what if he really is your soul mate? Similiar situation happened to me and we're married with three kids. Go with what you feel but know you have to live with the consquences. Love is not an easy thing but its worthwhile. Sit him down and tell him you will be gone forever and DO exactly what you say!!! Good Luck Sweetheart!
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reader, julls +, writes (16 December 2005):
Hi lady
How selfish could you be? This is a young man who is just about to marry the love of his life. Guys say things with they mouth and not from their heart. Men just dont get committed just for fun. This guy want to be with this lady and he does not want any man to have her. He is still young and he still got a lot of choices to choose from. Get a guy who is still available and who is elder than this one.Let him achieve his dreams of making his woman happy.
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reader, Wild +, writes (30 November 2005):
tricky situation indeed,you see loving someone at times is a painfull experiance because there are times that u need to love the person enough to let her/him go.my sister,face the facts,the guy is in love with his girl,the very fact that they are getting married is valid proof.try to forget about him and move on with ur life.it won't be easy,but trust me time heals.plzzzz take a dicision to give him space as he is preparng for his marriage.can i also ask you in the spirit of fairness to think about that girl also,i mean his fiancee!!!!
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