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writes: I am with a girlfriend who says she doesn't feel the same just two weeks after moving in together and who I know is talking with her ex about getting back together but we are living together. They have a 3 year old son and throughout our one year relationship we have split up on and off a few times because they continue to talk about what if they got back and throw guilt at each other that their son has lost a family and 'the other one's fault. She finishes it with me when this happens and then wants me back again.We decided to rent a house together but just a couple of weeks before she got cold feet and told me she was going to end it wanted get back with her ex, although it seemed not an easy decision. He said he couldn't do it and even phoned me to say he would stop talking about it with her and she came running back and like a fool after thought i decided to give her another chance.Now just two weeks after we have moved in things haven't been the same between us because of all this and she told me she doesn't feel the same about me, but I know it's because that she is still talking with him about getting back together. She says she doesn't know what to do, me or him kind of thing.I am stuck in the house with her, I know he won't get back with her and just wants to know she still wants him. They would have done it by now. I can't carry on hurting like this but dont know whether to stand by her again or leave, as this could just keep happening.Friends say I have changed and people at work say I am moody and stressed all the time. I have been like that for a while as this has happened so often. Do I leave the girl I love or stick by her to see what she wants?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2005): I think your girl friend is confused whether to choose you or her ex. Its better to leave her and move on. There is a saying "Life is simple but we have made it complicated". All the best.
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