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writes: Hi, I' a 39 year old rcoverying from cervical cancer. I split with my ex a while back when he had affair and got the girl pregnant. We have children and a business together and while at beginning seeing him most days was painful, I got over it and tried to move on with my life. II met a new man and things started looking up for me. Then I got sick and had the surgery and my ex was my strength, bringing me to hospital and staying with me and coming everyday to help. During this time we drew closer and it caused conflict with my new guy. In the end I broke up with him cos of the overwhelming feelings I had for my ex, my ex telling me how he had been living alone for last 6 months and how he would always love me but becos of the past pain he didn't want to hurt me again. I got to the point of asking him to come home, that I could put the affair behind me, but found out yesterday he is still living with his girl and I am now his other women. My heart is breaking all over again and I don't know what to do. This feels like day one for me. We were together before breakup 13 years and any advice to bring me from brink, please.
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reader, Tim +, writes (22 November 2005):
 kick his ass he is using u and cheating on u, princess u dont deserve a cheater husband, sounds u trust people too quickly and u forgive guilty people so easily before u punish them. Just kick his a...s out of ur life, he will never be straight forward he will keep cheating alway sand for ever.
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