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I need help about sex

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Question - (7 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *hettoPrincess writes:

im seeing this lad and i told him im not a virgin, and we both want to have sex i dont want him to kno that im a virgin will he find out after having sex with me?? i cant tell him im a virgin either but i use tampons and ive been fingerd a few times so im not tight ... pleaseee helpp..!! .. x

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A male reader, Ifyoudontmind United States +, writes (8 October 2009):

Being sexual with your partner isnt about being a virgin or non virgin, its simply just an expression of an emotion you can display physically.

It isnt going to matter if your a virgin or not. Since you are, wait on sex. I would suggest making sure you want to lose it to this guy,

I wasted my virginity on a girl, and I cried for months. Seriously. I was heartbroken, she cheated on me.. and it was a mess.

Just be careful.

Be intimate, be more caress, and mutual masturbation is always a good time.

good luck

-iydm

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A female reader, sunnycomet Canada +, writes (7 October 2009):

sunnycomet agony auntYou should always tell the truth but since you didn't you have a problem.

I think it would be better to tell him you are a virgin beforehand because he would probably be able to tell when having sex.

Good Luck!

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