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writes:about 6 month ago, me and by girlfriend broke up after 2 years together, nothing happened we just couldnt see each other as much due to college so we grew apart, about 2 weeks ago she got back in contact with me, is was abit awkward but everything was fine we spent the day together and everything was fine at the end of the day she dropped a hint of sex the next time she came round, 3 times we made arangements to meet in the week but something kept coming up, the same as when we were going out, so we lost contact again, but now she has a new boyfriend, we talked about seeing other people the last time we saw each other but she mentioned nothing about it, which hurts, i thought we could stay friends but it seems like she only wants me when it's for her benofit, like im a tool, i just don't like the fact of someone else being there with her, dont get me wrong i want her to be happy but it hurts, the past 3 days i havent been able to sleep or eat properly it hurts too much, someone help please any advice would be very much aappreciated
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (9 January 2010):
 You may have to cut this girl out of your life. It sounds to me that she just wants to use you when she feels like it. I had an ex gf like that. I still wish the best for her but that doesn't mean I need to be part of her life. If you really want to be her friend don't give up, just don't expect anything to change. It will take time to get her out of your thoughts but I hope that the fact that you do still wish the best for her will provide some comfort.
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