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*owboy13
writes:hi, im 13 and i love masterbating. but see everyone at school knows i do it and i cant get a girlfriend and i want to have sex really bad. know one at my school is sexually interested as me can yall help me any tips on my subject matter just anything about this how do i get a girlfriend how to tell if any other girl is as horny as me thank u
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reader, Illithid + ♥, writes (7 November 2009):
 Oooh trust me, I've been there. But I will admire you if you're mature and wise enough to wait. So many younger teens make the impulsive jump into a sexual relationship as soon as they're physically able, thinking that just because you're a smart young man and very stable and mature means you're ready for sex. Please realize that while it's harder to wait, and seems less popular, it IS better to wait. It really is.
But if you DO have sex, NO MATTER WHAT make sure you use a condom EVERY time. Pulling out before you climax is NOT enough. Before even getting near her, put one on and once it's off, pants have to go back on.
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reader, tux + ♥, writes (7 November 2009):
 I think marriedlady hit the nail on the head.. You should wait and until your teen years without the sex. Yes sex can feel great, but it's consequences and after effects can be less desireable.
If you do find yourself having sex, please do wear a condom and use other birth control methods, but bear in mind that even using these can result in std's and having children if they fail either on themselves or by improper use.
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reader, marriedlady + ♥, writes (7 November 2009):
 look babycakes you are 13!!!! You need to think about sports, or music, or bicycles, or skateboards...anything but wanting to have sex "really bad." For goodness sakes you may not even need to shave yet...Here's the reality, if you are not mature enough, and financially independent, you should not have sex. Sex can and does create babies. It is not a toy or a new xbox game. It is a grim reality that 13 year olds can become parents. Stop, listen and look. I am in no way calling you immature, its just that NO ONE is ready at the age of 13 for the responsibilty of sex. The world in general has glamourized it until pre pubescent children know more about sex, than i did after giving birth twice. Just wait sweetie. Stick with masterbating. Please.
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