A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi. I'm 19 and my "boyfriend" is 21. I've been with him since August 2008. Last week I found out that he's been “playing around” with another girl since December 2008. I had my suspicions that something might be going on but I had no conclusive proof, until now. I managed to get the girls number of his phone; so I called her, and she told me what was really going on. He claims he "loves me" and that he knows he messed up and he really does feel ashamed and regrets it. He understands what he did and he's really feeling it. The problem is that I still love him and even though I'm really hurt, I can't let him go. I do know that if we do get back together, things will never be the same. There are going to be a lot of issues regarding trust, family and friends... What should I do?
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (8 November 2009):
 Playing around with another girl just four months after he started dating you? What a loser he is! Forget him, he's a slimy cheater. He had plenty of time to come clean and he didn't. He's only sorry he was caught.
Find another man who's honest and sincere.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2009): Once a cheater, always a cheater. If he's sorry, he's sorry he got caught. If he didn't go further, it's just because he didn't get the chance.
Run!
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