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writes:This isn't really a question about relationships or anythin, but its the only place i seem to get quick good answers. So i don't have many friends because i fell out with my best 3 and they kinda turned everyone against me. But the few i am friends with aren't into that whole clubbin kinda scene, whereas i am. Im 16 and im ready to go round town. But with who? Well i had this convo with my mum and she said why don't you go with your brother and his friends and girlfriend.. because his girlfriend doesn't like being the only girl. But i'm not sure, is it wierd to go with my brother? I've never been round town before, but he's 18 and knows what to do lol. So he'd look after me (i think lol) i really want to go but i just dunno if i would feel awkward. And he's in sixth form and they have socials which are like partys with everyone from sixthform and they can take people with them, and theres loadsa fit guys that go :) andddd one inparticular which i really like, so i don't know what to do if any of them asked who im there with id be like oh my brother and id feel stupid lol. So if i did go? What would i wear? Not too slutty, dressed up or dressed down? I would need to look older, cos my bro's girlfriend is 17 and she sometimes gets asked for ID lol, so i would too... please give me some advice :)
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reader, satindesire  +, writes (7 November 2009):
 They are going to places that requires ID, which means there's probably alcohol served there, which means you need to NOT GO WITH THEM. Okay? You are not old enough to legally enter those places, and if the cops raided it and caught you, you will go to jail and the pub/tavern/bar/club whatever, will get fined and possibly shut down.
Do you seriously want to risk going to jail and getting that establishment closed just to go inside it? Honestly?!
Do yourself and everyone else a favor, ask your friends to take you to a place where you can LEGALLY go.
Just ask the other girl what she's wearing and dress similarly. If she's wearing jeans, then wear jeans. Etc.
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reader, CaringGuy + ♥, writes (7 November 2009):
There's nothing wrong with going out with your brother and friends, but I'm a bit worried that you might tempted by the alcohol and end up in a worse position than before. So if you do go out with him and friends, don't get drunk and make sure you're always safe. If you get on well with his girlfriend, you could ask her to point you in the right direction. It would be a good way of getting to know her as well.
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