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writes:My exboyfriend was my first love. I loved him a lot. We broke up 3 months ago. We decided to stay to stay friends but is really hard for me because I haven't forgiving him from hurting me the way he did. Be broke up becaue "it had to be done" according to him because we had be arguing a lot. After almost 2 years. Now he is dating but he says he isn't moving on and that he sees me in his future. So its very confusing to me. I don't know what to do or what to think about it. Even worse. I never dealt with this amount of pain before so is very hard for me to deal with it. I barely sleep and sometimes I wake up and I just feel like I want to hate him and forget and feel nothing at all. And sometimes I feel like I miss him and I want us to be together again. And ethier way I can't hide my feelings from him, my heart is an open book to him. I feel like such a fool expressing my feeling to him because I don't feel they are returned. I don't even feel like he really cares. But I a part of me keeps telling me he does but his actions say he doenst. I'm so confused.
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (8 November 2009):
 Omg, i have this! My ex broke up with me 3mnths ago, i dated, and is dating atm, its probs not rite or proper of me, as i still have feelings towards my ex, But he occasionaly says he still loves me then cuts me down and my pain is back again from when he broke up with me. Recently my ex told me a load of things wrong with me, i now really dislike him, and worst of all, he is kind of proud of what he said!
I duno how to forgive him. It depends how close you guys are atm i guess.
if you wana talk, message me :)
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