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writes:well...lets start simple..im 13 and i recently got a boyfriend (about a month ago),,,and ill just add its not my firsthe is really sweet and has on his myspace that he loves me and that im his girlfriend and all of that kind of stuff.but at lunch he is alwaaaays with his friends,,and i cant go over to them because they don't like me or my personality.so we don't often talk. When he is with his friends i can always hear them laughing at me and calling me a slut and stuff because i am always around guys(not in a bad way its just i dont get along with girls, the guys are my besties)and when they say the mean things he laughs with them.it kinda annoys me and i dont like the fact that he is never around me.anywayyeaajust asking for some advicexxxtake care everyone
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): yeah im 14 and been through that before.
one time i was going out with the popular new boy and he was with the popular boys. and those boys i had known since year 7 so we were all okay but we wernt besties but they acknowledged who i was and was okay with me although some would just say stuff about me ....BUT he would always stick up for me.
second time, i was going out with this boy, he was the sweetest boy you could ever imagine, wrote a massive paragraph about me on bebo and it took him 20mins. but when it came down to it, his mates would say stuff about me and call me names and he just laughed along with them and i was like what on earth? i didnt say anything to him so he carried on....he ended up cheating on me.
you dont want anything like that or for anything to end badly so you MUST talk to him about it straight away cos hes not a mind reader. but if he still doesnt change the way he is, then i think you're going to be better off without him and find someone else who WILL treat you right, the way you deserve.
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reader, Olivia(Y).  +, writes (1 May 2009):
 Your not going to like me for saying this but if he really loved you do you think he would laugh at mean comments about you.
Babe if i was you i would leave him. If he can't tell his friends where to stick the horrible comments about you then hes not really worth it.
If you really love him and want to be with him then talk to him about it saying how annoying and hurtful it is to hear him laughing at his friends calling you a slut and other things.
Just because you hang around with boys doesn't make you a slut. I can't get on with girls either and i know where your comming from.
Good luck babe :)
Livia
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