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*rissy6288
writes:do I really still love my boyfriend? I mean don't get me wrong he is a great guy and we love each other but sometimes he can be really annoying. He is my second boyfriend and I'm his third girlfriend. We weren't friends that long before we started going out. We are both really happy when we ate together but he can also be a little to much sometimes, like at lunch when were with our friends and stuff he always has to be touching me and have his arms around me. Sometimes I feel that it is too much, am I wrong to feel this way? I mean I love to spend time with just him and me but sometimes I wish we were more friends then anything but then again I couldn't live without him as my boyfriend. I am so confused about what I feel. Am I just scared? Do I still love him or is it over? Reply to this Question
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reader, crissy6288 +, writes (2 May 2009):
crissy6288 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank u so much it's a big help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): Hey... Ya. Love is a challenge at any age for all of us...
It sounds like your are longing for him to be as much a friend to you as a "boyfriend" and nothing wrong with you wanting that.
You are going to meet and be with many (unless you are one in a hundred that meets and stays with the high school sweetheart) for all her days.
You are learning what works for you in dating. Every person you are with is a teacher (as you to them); you are learning about yourself. If you eventually don't find the friendship within being a girlfriend to him, you certainly have learned that you need a healthy friendship too (to work) not just "boyfriend/girlfriend" benefits. Trust your gut and let it play out. :)
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