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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:If a girl doesn't call or text does that mean she doesn't want you around any more? This girl and I have been talking and hanging out for about five months and we really hit it off but then all of a sudden she just stopped. She no longer calls or texts me. She never answers my calls and he texts are short and uninterested. Should I just assume she doesn't like me any more and that she no longer wants me around? Should I just count my losses and give up? or could there be some other reason behind this sudden change?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): Thanks everyone for your help. I just didn't quite understand because she used to be so interested in me. I hear she has found someone else so i am going to just going to fade away and let life keep rolling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): just straight out ask her.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): sorry but shes not interested - maybe shes found someone else or maybe shes just lost interest, it happens and its not good when it happens to you. Time to move on. If she wanted to talk to you shed call, text and seem interested. It might be hard but move on and try to not think of her - plenty of other girls around.
hope this helpd
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reader, hotlips4  +, writes (1 May 2009):
Thats a tricky one. There could be a logical explanation like she lost her phone and al her numbers and cant get in touch with you or maybe she is no longer interested.
Think about things you have said to her, have you maybe offended or upset her?
If she was good enough for you and a half decent human being if she wasnt interested she should have told you. its only nice to be nice and have respect for people. try calling her and see if she answers. It might be best to move on. im sorry if you dont like my advice. x
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reader, morgan5885 +, writes (1 May 2009):
well it's most likely something that happened when you two were together or something you said, but anytime i send short, uninterested texts to a guy i dont really want to talk to it's becuase he's not fun to talk to
like i talked to this guy a lot and i, by myself kept the conversation going but after a while i got sick of having to do that. If he wants to talk to me he can figure out some things to talk about so i dont sit there trying to reply to all of his one word texts like "ok" or "lol" or "yeah"
just make sure you keep the convo going and sometimes you as the guy can bring up topics
i dont really know what to tell you, just find out whats wrong, talk to her in person you're more likely to get somewhere
sorry all my blabbing isnt much help lol
good luck
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