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writes: Okay maybe it will be hard for you to understand, but I have this question and I hope it makes sense when it comes out.So I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months. He treats me so good, takes me out, sends me cute text messages every morning. Just does everything a good boyfriend should do.The problem is sometimes I don't feel the way he's feeling. So I automatically assume he doesn't feel that way either and think that just because I feel that way- that he's fallen out of love with me or something. So my question is;Do I have a guilty conscience on him about his feelings because of how I feel?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): wow thanks so much .. that was nicely put :)
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reader, squares  +, writes (22 July 2009):
This sometimes happens but you can't project your feelings onto him. It might be that you are falling out of love with him, or are merely bored that day. To be in love doesn't mean that every moment of your day is consumed with that person, or that you always have to be incredibly excited to see them. Your feelings are your own, and if he's still being attentive and sending the text messages then it's unlikely he's fallen out of love with you. Consider your feelings and if you come to the conclusion that it's not you, ask him. He'll tell you how he feels one way or the other.
Good luck :)
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