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I want to play hard to get..just don't know what to do . . .

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Question - (21 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i like this guy but he has a girlfriend BUT i know he has to be a bit into me. we hang out and when we do he puts his arm around me and gets sad if i move and touches me etc. but we havent kissed.

i want him to want me more but i dont want to seem like a hoe for being all over him and i dont want to be his rebound girl and him to think im easy.

i want to play hard to get with him and maybe POSSIBLY itll work but i need some ideas on how to play hard to get. what should i do if we are hanging out and he hugs me or puts his arm around me etc. ?

should i let him or lead him on and then say oh wait its too bad your taken. give me some ways to play hard to get and things to do to make him want me more . thanks :)

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (21 April 2009):

SirenaBlusera agony auntGames suck. If you really love him, then you'll have to get your courage up and tell him how you feel. I think people need to be told the truth.

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A female reader, sugar_sugar United States +, writes (21 April 2009):

sugar_sugar agony auntYou should grow up and stop chasing after other girls boyfriends. If he is behaving like this while he's got a girlfriend - he will do exactly the same to you.

Real relationships don't involve playing hard to get. If a guy likes you and is ready for a relationship with you, you won't have to scheme and play games to get him.

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