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My boyfriend keeps getting hit on by his ex, Should I be worried?

Tagged as: Teenage, The ex-factor, Virginity<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (21 October 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 October 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I know I'm probably being paranoid, but should it bother me if my boyfriend keeps getting hit on by his ex? (who happens to be the school slut). He only dated her for a couple weeks and made the mistake of sleeping with her. She cheated on him and he dumped her. He complains to me about how she was a huge mistake and he dooesn't even trust her enough to be her friend. He reminds her every day that he hates her, she should burn in he**, etc. She keeps hitting on him, though. I'm a little worried that if i don't give him my virginity, then he'll crawl back to her. He is very very sweet and the only reason he dated her in the first place was because she lied to him and told him that she would change and not be a slut. He hasn't once asked me for sex, nor has he gotten close. Every time we make out, he tells me that he needs a lot of self control because he doesn't want to ruin the relationship or make me uncomfortable. What should I do?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (21 October 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntThat's "between".

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (21 October 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou should keep a nickel bewteen your knees. You don't give up your precious virginity to keep a boyfriend, in fact at your age that's the surest way to LOSE a boyfriend. Trust me.

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