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anonymous
writes:Hey all.Its simple really but I don't know what way to go forward. Just started work and there is a man.. Now when i say man i mean a real man. That is what is so sexy but i am 22 he must be atleast 40. Single has children my age. And im working on cases with him. i can't stop staring at him. So sexy in his rustic ways.I don't think he is interested he hasn't flirted etc. But how can i try to try it on with him in subtle way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey it feels it has all changed!!this morning he purposely bumped into me and said hello. even though i had already said hello when he said hello too whole team.then we had a meeting with other people i didnt think id be able to attend but i did he walked out room saw me was so happy massive grin came stood next to me and was saying you made it.BUT- when i sat next to him in meetin my knee touched his sometimes his touched mine nothing major he moved leg away. so did i later. then he put his knee near mine-i said sorry and moved it. He put his knee near mine, i moved mine. i said to him u going for a c-i-g after the meeting first time we had meeting he did and we chattedtoday he said no probably later.and then later just smiles, staring trying to walk past me etche looks after me he e.g when it comes to standing up for me. he is single and tomorrow we are having a lot time 1-1 because we have some errands for work im driving. we keep walking past eachother purposely to get eachothers attention. is he into me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2012): Romance in the office usually don't mix well. I think this man who is older and hopefully wiser won't entertain that notion. Not all men are interested in getting a young hot play thing. My best advice is to let that one go and find someone outside of the workplace you can mingle with. Good luck!
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (10 November 2012):
 Don't! If he has given no indication he is interested don't try it on, he may be very embarressed or even horrified that a girl who could be his daughter would act like that. Besides, just because he isn't married doesn't mean he isn't already involved with somebody.
You are new to the job, don't try it on, it could mean the end of a promising career.
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