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Have I been used in this relationship?

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Question - (28 January 2023) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm 32 and have been dating my 49 year old boyfriend for two years, i have gave him he's first child. He has hes own home but lives with me, he doesn't give me any money while staying here (which I have mentioned to him) I feel like I'm paying for everything here to keep us while he's paying for hes mortgage and bills over there but not living in it. I've mentioned about selling it or renting it out and living here properly and he doesn't seem to want to do it now when originally that was he's plan when I was pregnant. He goes over there every month and stays the night and doesn't even get in touch until the next day but doesn't understand why I'm upset.he hardly ever apologises when in the wrong. I have now ended things because I cannot see him committing to us at all. I have had threats with courts over our child even though he has unlimited access and now he's saying take care of our child I won't be coming to see again. I can't believe the behaviour from a man of he's age. Have I been used in all of this?

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