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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Just diagnosed with herpes who gave it to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3811 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have just been diagnosed with genital herpes ! Very shocking too as im female and have just turned 22 However im in a slight dilema i am with my partner for nearly five months we never used protection he never mentioned anything about holding any stds so i am unsure i... (240 words)

We had an argument because he wanted sex and I wanted to sleep. Should I call him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3811 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i had a fall out with my new boyfriend the other day, he basically said to me, i don't understand how can you girls know a guy has a hard on and not do anything about it!... he was saying that because i slept at his and we had sex the night before, and he wanted to have s... (153 words)

We were supposed to go out this evening but I haven't heard back from her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

16 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so the way my situation started was with a lot of good signs from this lady I met at the dog park. I thought she was absolutely attractive and luckily my dog went to play near her dog and ended walking with her around the park so I said here goes my starting line with her. ... (582 words)

Guy I messed around with won't leave me alone and friends won't respect my privacy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3812 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been friends with "Lisa" since preschool and "Angela" since seventh grade. I was the "good" one of the group, mostly because I had REALLY strict parents (as in, we were only allowed to watch Christian shows/listen to Christian music. We weren't allowed to get driver's ... (1084 words)

I'm so afraid of getting hurt again I'm thinking of leaving him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - In April 2012, I had a boyfriend, who I had been dating for two years, die in an accident. We had been planning our engagement and had even put an offer in on a house. After the accident happened, I was shut out completely by his family. It's such a long story and I feel ... (543 words)

Out of sight out of mind? Anyone else stop caring about sex when they've been without for a while?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi so I have this problem...well I dont know if it is so much a huge issue but just curious if other people feel the same way. I have been noticing that my sex drive isnt all that high. It isn't all that low but not super high if I compare it to some of my sex-crazed frien... (192 words)

I kind of resent lending my friend money and having to pay the interest

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - One of my best friends has asked me to put plane tickets for her children to fly out to see her twice now-both times I have said yes, even though I don't really like it. The first time, the amount wasn't that high and I had the extra funds to pay off the credit card befo... (256 words)

My boyfriend acts differently when we fight over text and in person

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - When my boyfriend and I argue over text, I've found that he's very mean, stubborn, and blames me for everything. When we fight in person, he is more kind and owns up to his side, as I do with mine. Why does he do this? Is it a power thing? Being all high and mighty behind a ... (60 words)

After you meet for a date how long do you wait before contacting them again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

16 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Online dating. After you meet for a date, you kiss, you want to see her again, how long should you leave it before contacting her? She seemed interested but I don't want to come on too strong. Also I went online today and she was on there at the same time. Does this mean she ... (67 words)

How do I get through tomorrow knowing that I've lost her forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

16 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I'm rather depressed at the moment. Tomorrow, I'll be watching the love of my life marry my best friend. When we were 15, my best friend and I met a girl who immediately friend-zoned both of us. I told him once that I liked her as more than a friend and he ... (381 words)

Is it too much to kiss on the first date?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I went on a first date last night.Met online and exchanged a few messages over about a week. Went to two different bars, had some good conversation and laughs. He walked me home and then leant in for a kiss. We kissed passionately for 45 mins despite it being a freezing night ... (308 words)

Co-worker using son for excuses to get out of work and he's not sick!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really annoyed at the fact that my colleague uses her son to get out of work early and have time off by saying he's ill when he's not!! She called in on a Friday once saying that her son had a really high temperature and could barely walk and she was contemplating to... (480 words)

He was the right person at the wrong time! I want him back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - 4 years ago, I met this awesome man, who's all loving and caring, but the problem is, he came in the wrong time. At that time i was already with another man, I had to choose between him and the man i was currently with. Unfortunately, i made the wrong decision. I chose the ... (399 words)

I don't know if its just me or he's just difficult to live with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3814 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know if you are really a bad, unreasonable person who is difficult to live with, or if you are just with someone who makes you feel that way? Basically every disagreement ends in myself being the one who caused it/the one at fault/the one that apologises and i... (195 words)

Should I just forget the past and be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3804 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - p /> My story's long, hope you will read itto the end. I came from Eastern Europe to US 12 years ago with 2 small children ages 7 and 4, after winning a green card. Upon arrival I was greeted by organization that helps new immigrants to adjust in an unfimiliar country. Th... (1435 words)

My boyfriend of a year and a half looks up pictures of half naked girls online.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of a year and a half looks up pictures of half naked girls online. I found out through his Facebook page, because he left it open once and every page he had been on was like all pictures of sexy half naked women. My boyfriend loves me and I love him and we're ... (229 words)

I'm shy, and he's way friendlier than I'd like

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I guess I just want an opinion on my actions. Basically there's a teacher at my college who is extremely friendly. But sometimes it's just too much. Once he learns your name he will try to say "Hi" whenever he sees you. His department is in the same building as the departmen... (536 words)

Missing my LDR. Should I book a ticket to see him at Christmas? Or make him wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do? I miss him so much:(? So I'm in LDR with my boyfriend. He's the most sweetest and romantic guy I've ever been with. and his body is just amazing!! I trust him, and out married friends set us up so I trust them and him. We've been talking everyday all... (134 words)

Am I being clingy and controlling? Do I care too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hi quick question, my boyfriend and i have been together now for 2 years. Whenever time he goes out, whether to his dad's house or out with friends he does not like to tell me and we live together. I find it disrespectful and rude. I complain to him and he says when he ... (104 words)

Do I break-up and run? My BF engages in self destructive behaviour and I think I deserve better.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have posted here before and your advice has always helped me make it through bad times. My boyfriend of a year has driven drunk for most of his adult life he exhibits other self destructive behaviors. Says he likes risk. I have spoken to him about this and expressed ... (416 words)

Don't want drama. Have not talked to FWB since condom broke. So how do I tell him I'm pregnant?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Soo I feel really stupid here but I don't know what to do.... I was in this FWB things for a couple months we used condoms but had an incident when one broke and 9 weeks later here I am pregnant. Problem is I haven't talked to him since the condom broke... He always told me h... (94 words)

Might this classmate be interested in me? Why flirt with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3814 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So, there's a guy who I never really talk to, but every day in one of my classes, where his seat is right beside mine. He will randomly reach over and try to grab my hand or arm or just brush his hand against my shoulder or something random like that. He also will make strange ... (229 words)

Sleeping with my ex-teacher who wants to leave his wife.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

16 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20 year old girl from the UK and 5 years ago met a new teacher at school. He was 28 at the time (now 32). I was in my final year and he was new in the last few months. We got very close etc. and to cut a long story short, after my 16th birthday and after I'd left school ... (261 words)