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Archived questions from: 21 November, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Mom found out I'm no longer a virgin and all hell has broken loose! I don't regard myself as a sl*t, but she now certainly makes me feel like one.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3800 days ago

21 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 27yr female, a doctor in her fellowship in Mexico. I was virgin till I turned 25, I decided to have sex with my then 6month boyfriend who's still withe me (three years now). We are in a steady and serious relationship, even considering marriage now. The problem is, in my ... (240 words)

Almost 17 and I feel like I'm having an identiy crisis, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

21 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - For the last couple of months I've been feeling like i'm having an identity crisis. Throughout my whole life I have never been comfortable with my looks and self image, but it appears at this point in my life it is more prominent than ever. ... (715 words)

My instincts tell me he's not one for a FWB

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

21 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts and Uncles I have recently started what is supposed to be a "friends with benefits" relationship with a guy who's almost 20 years older than me. He's an incredibly attractive man and we've liked each other for a few weeks and we finally hooked up. He's separated a... (518 words)

Things have changed so much because of her illness -- can we get back to where we were?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

21 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice as am completely stuck. I'm in a long term lesbian relationship that for the past year has been incredibly difficult. When I first met my partner she was my ideal woman. Literally the moment I met her I fancied her. She was like the epitome of cool and we g... (881 words)

Is my husband happy that I asked for the divorce?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3800 days ago

21 November 2013 (F)

age - After 11 years of marriage I found out that my husband was completely diferent of the one I though he was.He always had female friends which he always helped,send some gifts...but since a while he was connecting a lot with them and I was feeling left out.I felt that we were ... (277 words)

Is there still a chance for us? Should I contact him again within a few months? Or should I just forget about him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3798 days ago

21 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'll keep it short since our 'relationship' was short too. I met this guy at a party 3 weeks ago. We had an instant click and an amazing evening. He told me he came just out of a long relationship and was single for just 1 month. He's 23, i'm 26 but we didn't care abou... (424 words)

I feel I need to warn other women on the dating website about this aggressive jerk

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

21 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help dealing with a situation. About 18 months ago I met a guy. He was fine and gentlemanly. On the fourth date, he got quite intimidating and clearly wanted sex. He got lairy. I was scared and intimidated but luckily as he did not have any protection we di... (207 words)

How can I help my son financially without it causing further tension?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3800 days ago

21 November 2013 (M)

age - 21 November 2013: My 29 year old son has just got himself a good job but he is on 6 months probation before his position is confirmed. He needs a car to get to and from work and has no money to fund the purchase himself. He is unlikely to be able to get credit because of ... (162 words)

I just don’t see how all of these things could be happening and he still isn't interested!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

21 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in the middle of an extremely weird situation and am eager for a second opinion, even if it is harder to give valid advice if you have never seen me interacting with this person. So here’s the situation. There is this guy, I’ll just call him J, whom I have liked since th... (927 words)

Why is my fiancée's mother bribing me with gas cards?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

21 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Why is my fiancee's mother bribing me with gas cards, when I've put on 6300 miles in the last two months? My fiancee can't drive because of her seizure disorder (though it has been getting more under control recently). We currently live 45 minutes away from each other. My ... (131 words)

Does my B/f still miss his ex? How often do they talk? Was their relationship better than ours? Am I a rebound to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

21 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we were friends/talking for 2 months before we got together. When him and I first met and were in the friends/talking kind of stage, he still had feelings for his ex and they talked often. They had been broken up f... (441 words)

Did I overreact to comments about my weight?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3800 days ago

21 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I might have over reacted. I was texting back and forwards with this guy I had not dated yet. Everything was going well until he made this comment ~i don't usually date girls like you, but you look decent~ when i asked him what did he mean by that? *he basicall... (364 words)

How to get my BF back and move on in the old direction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3801 days ago

21 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in 4,5 year long distance relationship. We were seeing each other every 2nd weekend, which is quite often for 2 countries that are far away. It was love at first sight, we had the same taste, traveled a lot together, planning to marry and have kids and most important I ... (667 words)

My LDR girlfriend had drinks with male friends at her place late at night. Is that acceptable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

21 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My ldgf was having some drinks with her female roomate and a couple of guys until 3 am at her place. is it acceptable? Here's the story: when we skyped she said she was going to bed and we were about to end our converstation when her phone rang and it was around 10.30 pm. I ... (408 words)