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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How or what should I do to make gym time fun for the both of us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

4 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - When my boyfriend and I met I was heavy set I have since loss about 10lbs he is constantly trying to get me to workout with him I am not comfortable working out with him. He gets really mean in the gym and it makes me feel unpretty. How or what should I do to make gym time fun ... (64 words)

Why doesn't he understand that I want his time, not his money?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3826 days ago

4 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have reached my breaking point! My boyfriend and I live together. His mom and brother live like 30 minutes away. Any way. Every weekend when he gets paid he goes stays with his mom and brother we never do anything except just go out to eat which is getting boring. ... (152 words)

Have I had an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

4 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I'm a sexually confident 22 year old. I've masturbated for as long as I can remember almost, so I'm no stranger to my body. I was perfectly satisfied until I started talking to my female friends a few years ago when I came to an odd realisation - I don't actually t... (210 words)

People tell me I should get to know him but something about him makes me uneasy

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

4 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel strange round this older man? There is a man I have recently met (few weeks) and everyone seems to love him he is charming, a great speaker, and in his 40s but for some reason I just don't feel comfortable around him, I hate it when I see him watching me, and when ... (198 words)

Never had much luck with boys so wondering how to proceed with this one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

4 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am seventeen years of age and have had much boy luck! I really like this boy in school and because of my luck with boys i am really not confident at all to do anything about it!He does come across as that confident around girls either. I talk to one of his close friends ... (107 words)

Should I text him again today?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

4 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I met this guy on Friday night in a bar. He was visibly very nervous about approaching me and even nearly walked away out of embarrassment but I was smiling at him and encouraging him to continue talking to me. Then we actually hit it off extremely well. WE had the same ... (269 words)

Feel guilty spending Christmas away from my mum

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

4 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'm hoping to get some advice to what might sound like a really trivial problem - I know it sounds silly but I can hardly sleep over it so hope someone will offer advice. I am married and pregnant. Every Christmas day I spend with my parents - although I have two si... (296 words)

He changed his password after I questioned him about some FB friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

4 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I looked at my boyfriend's facebook. I know it's deceitful but I have been feeling a distrust. He has been friending girls that he meets at his friend's house. He hasnt been flirting but messaging those girls with "hey. wad up? How are you?" one told him that he has beautiful ... (155 words)

I feel so inferior when I hear the word "porn"

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

4 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a fear of porn, whenever I hear the word I immediately think of better looking women who are good at sex and it makes feel small. I've always had problems, my first boyfriend was a porn addict ever since then I always had it in mind that those people are better than me ... (119 words)

How do I find a good time to talk to my mother about first time sex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

4 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - First, there is a seven year age difference between me and my significant other. I don't care about that, but getting info out of the way. Second, we've been dating for 3 months now. I am 18, he is 25. Things have heated up within this past month, and now it appears the rela... (433 words)

How can anyone up and leave their kids?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

4 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Why would a man or a woman walk away from their kids? I am a little upset right now. I am settled in a relationship and happy. I have two wonderful kids from a pervious relationship. My ex texted me before and said that he can't stand me, he hates me so much that he ha... (121 words)

He takes ages to reply to my messages!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

4 November 2013 (?) age 30-35 - I'm currently dating this guy and have been for a few months...we see each other only about twice a week as we both work full time. During the time we don't see each other we message. But my problem is that 80% of the time he won't respond to me for ages...takes ove... (142 words)

Who should I go for? My fiance William or my soul mate Andy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

4 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am at a relationship crossroads. I met my college sweetheart "Andy" when I was 18. We were friends for a year, and then dated for 3 and had planned to marry someday. We had typical young love problems and broke up when we graduated. He went to Europe for grad school and I ... (332 words)

My boyfriend isn't able to cum by vaginal sex. Why?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

4 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf is very sexually aggressive and likes to dominate and humiliate me sexually and that's okay with me. The thing that bothers me though is that he only ejaculates if I stimulate him orally for over 30 minutes or if we do anal. Why that? He is unable to orgasm vaginally. Is ... (58 words)

I'm 33 and need to make up my mind on whether to have a baby or not?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

4 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey! I've just turned 33 and I have a good life. I own my house, have great permanent job, I'm married to the love of my life and have no financial worries. So, it's smooth sailing. Thing is, I'm getting old and I must make up my mind whether to have a baby or not because ... (243 words)

Best friend and I like the same man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

4 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having a major love crisis. One of my best friends likes a guy and she has liked him longer than I have. Apparently I like him to and he likes me back. I haven't told her yet and I have talked to other people I trust and I have gotten different reactions,so I was hoping I ... (69 words)

I'm afraid of the reaction I'll get if I tell my boyfriend I love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

4 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. His name is Jamie. I feel like I'm ready to tell him that I love him. I still get butterflies like when we first met. I feel so comfortable with him. He lets me fart in front of him and doesn't care what I look like ... (153 words)

Boyfriend says I am asking him to chose between me and knowledge!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

4 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I just told my boyfriend it bothers me that he is constantly either on his computer, his iPad (which I bought him) or watching TV. And his answer was that he's like that because he's constantly seeking knowledge and that I'm basically asking him to choose between me and ... (114 words)

I am scared my ex will come again and try to ruin my life again when I will be someone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3826 days ago

4 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear all, my question is plainly related to getting over my ex boyfriend. I had been in a relationship with this person for around 7-8 months. He asked me out out on 15th February 2013 and broke up with me on 12th October 2013. We were in a relationship for this time period. ... (291 words)

How do I say goodbye to my teacher/crush

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

4 November 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a male sophmore 16 years old in southern california and i am upset because my english teacher 23 yrs old(teacher in training) is leaving beacause she has completed her training. She is extremley attracitive and even called me her best freind no joke. She stares at me and ... (179 words)

Do guys think it's wierd for a girl to make the first move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

4 November 2013 (?) age 26-29 - I really like this guy and he knows. Hes super shy so he hasnt really made any moves (I think he likes me but im not sure because ive never had a guy like me before). I really want to kiss him next time I see him so I was wondering if it was weird for girls to make the first ... (97 words)