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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Need advice on dating a girl I like

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3817 days ago

3 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear everyone, I really need your help concerning a girl I have recently met. She's cute, nice and totally a keeper :) Now, we met in a completely neutral context. We were introduced to each other through some friends of my parents because she is currently unemployed and ... (806 words)

Am I too boring and weird to date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

3 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Lately I've been thinking about future relationships and stuff, and it's just hit me that even if I did get a girlfriend, I would have no idea what to do with her. I do not like the bar or club scene at all. I cannot and do not like to dance and the thought of hanging out a... (171 words)

Stay single, date the ex, or date the new guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

3 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some advice. I have been divorced for two years, this was my second marriage I had two children from my first one from my second. My second marriage was abusive. I got the strength together and rebuilt my life without help or assistance. Not long after I split fr... (631 words)

Need advice on a connection I made online that's got messy please.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

3 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This may be long but please bear with me I really need some insight from everyone. So I'll start with I'm a 28 y/o lesbian and about four months ago I did the whole online dating profile thing and found a young lady who seemed more or less interesting. After a few weeks of... (607 words)

Is this "friendship" break doable or should we take a real break to reevaluate our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

3 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are taking a friendship break (a break from our relationship, not talk except the day we would hang out once a week as friends, and not see other people) Hopefully for not more than 2 weeks. We love each, but fight a lot. So he thought if we do this and not ... (112 words)

Should I break up with my long term boyfriend? He's lovely but I think we are incompatible.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

3 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I know whether to break up with my boyfriend? I know that sounds like such an idiotic question. But we've been together for 8 years. I've never had a boyfriend other than him. We get along great. He's lovely to me and treats me really well. I feel like the time has come... (390 words)

Is my husband picking up vibes between me and another man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

3 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - The other day, my husband and I got together with a couple for dinner. I know the couple well enough, and my husband was meeting them officially for the first time. To make a long story short, I have shared a "look" with the husband of this other woman, and we've had a couple ... (248 words)

My new boyfriend is depressed and cuts people, including me, off. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

3 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I don't know what's going on. A few weeks ago I started dating my boyfriend. Everything was going well, and we were both so into each other, but all of the sudden, one night he started acting distant and funny towards not just me, but everyone. I know he has had a very ... (177 words)

I'm having trouble accepting her story about this "friend"

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

3 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I have a situation where I need an objective opinion before I act with too much haste and ruin everything. I have been with my fiancée for a little over two years now and I thought everything was going great up until about a week ago. She has been friends with an o... (1109 words)

How do I tell my crush about my feelings towards her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

3 November 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I'm 18 and I have great crush on a girl. She is also 18 but one month younger than me. And I have great feelings for her. We text each other for hours at social networks. And I think that she also feels the same what I feel for her. I want to express my feelings... (84 words)

How do get some confidence/self esteem after nasty breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

3 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my partner for 5 years and we lived together and shared a lot. We split a few months ago, while we were together the relationship was very turbulent. The only thing that seemed to stay constant was our love for one another but my partner was often very cruel, ... (344 words)

Married but in love with another

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

3 November 2013 (M)

age - I got married 3 yrs ago, but fell in love with someone else. I don't want to hurt my wife, but can't help thinking about the other women. I know the other women also loves me, and will wait an eternity for me. My wife is 20 yrs younger than me, but tends to show me little ... (72 words)

He says he's confused about whether he wants to be in a relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

3 November 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Ok, so I have this best friend, we were friends for about a year and then we became really close friends for about another year. Then we started dating and we really liked each other. We were going out for like 4 months.. then he went a bit cold and said he wanted to be just ... (241 words)

Was there veritas in his vino?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

3 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this isn't a really major one but last night I went to a nightclub with my mates, then one of the guys who I've know for about a year (we don't really text or anything) well he's jut got a job which will mean he is living abroad for sixth months. Last night he ... (176 words)

Am I Becoming A Chronic Masturbater? Am I Normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

3 November 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - This year has been a year that has been a bad year for my sexual desire, Last summer i use to masturbate around every 2 days or so, i use to do it every night and i never felt bad about it after it, until now. When i gain a orgasm from it which results in Semen coming out. i ... (120 words)

Why does she text me and say she misses me but she won't go out with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

3 November 2013 (M)

age - I've known this woman for 15 years. She texted me and says that she misses me. I asked her out, I have tried calling her. All I ever get each day is a text message saying good morning and that she misses me. I should just walk away. She doesn't go out with me and says she ... (91 words)

Why Do I Constantly Want To Have Sex! Please Help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

3 November 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - To make a long story short. Im 19 years of age and im in college and i know it's natural for males to sometimes glance at a females ass and such, i do that sometimes when i see these college junior girls. I get boners in awkward times. like when im in class and the professo... (143 words)

I sleep with him and he ignores me. Am I just a one night stand?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

3 November 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - So, a few weeks ago I was meeting up with this guy a few times a week. We met at a Bridal Fair so you can imagine my excitement at finally meeting a nice guy. Anyway, we met up to see movies at the cinema, grab food, etc. Then on one occasion we went to the local fairground, ... (229 words)

How can I remain strong once my lying cheating ex begins his apologetic stage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

3 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello and thanks I just broke up with my bf yesterday and I'm feeling saddened that it had to come to this. We were together on and off for 3 yrs. We had issues yrs ago when I caught him cheating with two different women online one woman was his ex. I was extremely hurt a... (359 words)

How can I explain my birth defect to girls?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

3 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone So heres my situation...I was born with a birth defect of my hands where a few of my fingers are shorter and honestly I'm comfortable enough with myself where I can admit it's weird and not a turn on for girls...it's gotten me denied by girls more times than I l... (148 words)

What goes through a 16 year old girl's head? I'm 21 and not sure

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

3 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone(: So there's this girl, she's 16 Then there's me, I'm 21. One day on Facebook she posted a sad status about how her ex done her wrong so I messaged her and told her to keep her head up because one day she would find a guy who would treat her the way she shou... (171 words)

What should be my next step in talking to this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

3 November 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - allright guys, so my question here is kind of a simple one, how do i keep going? so i recently met a girl on the debate team for my high school, we're both sophomores, and it was the first time i ever talked to her. now normally i wouldn't have a problem flirting with he... (196 words)

Do I tell this online man that I was being coached on what to say to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

3 November 2013 (?) age 51-59 - Hi everyone, I just started chatting with a guy online who is a Marine. I consider myself fairly intelligent but when it comes to knowing things about being in the service, I don't know anything. My ex-husband talked to me about him. He also knows that I have ADD and sometimes ... (313 words)

I know he just got out of a relationship ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

3 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I really hope and pray someone can please help me out. When I was young about 14 or so I was at a party and I met this guy we made out, then at one point we went outside and walked to a park and just talked. At that time he was a bit older so when he found out I was 14 he ... (149 words)

My ldr has a more intimate relationship with his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

3 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I recently became long distance as I had to move to another city. He would call me daily but only to tell me his itinerary of the day. There are no emotions, nothing romantic, its very repetitive and predictable. We are good when we are physically together ... (180 words)

My boss/manager is so hot! What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3818 days ago

3 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I started a new job and the guy who interviewed me was so hot. It just so happens that he is the manager, head hancho in charge if the top top people aren't there, and MY department manager In the department store. I always see him and he's always checking me out ... (278 words)

How can I get my dear bunny girlfriend back?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3815 days ago

3 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Six weeks ago, I met a beautiful young woman online who I ended up falling head over heels in love with. She was affectionate, caring, beautiful, we got on fantastically, the sex was amazing, and she seemed to be into me just as much as I was into her. We spent five beautiful ... (638 words)