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Everything's going wrong and life feels so stressful!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

4 May 2005 (? - A few months ago my partner of nine years told me that he had feelings for another woman. Due to this I had to give up my job (she worked with us). Now my partner tells me he wants to be with me but I cannot let it go. He says it started due to me pushing him away all the time... (147 words

If my ex thinks he was "stupid" to break up with me, should I think about us getting back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

4 May 2005 (? - HELP! My ex broke up with me about a month and a half ago. I went out w/ him for about a year. I loved him so much, and I was really hurt when he broke up with me. He thought I would hate him, but I really didn't. I still really liked him. It made me lose some trust in him so I ... (270 words

My wedding is looming, but I love someone else...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

4 May 2005 (? - I'm due to get married soon but I'm in love with someone else. What do I do?... (17 words

The new man's exciting, but I feel guily 'cos I don't know how I feel any more about my long-term partner...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3423 days ago

4 May 2005 (? - Hi, I'm 39 and in a relationship with a man for 10 years, not getting anywere at the moment, as he won't move in. I've just met another man and he turns me on! But I feel very guity and not sure what to do, as I don't know how I feel any more. ... (60 words

I've tried everything I know, but nothing seems to turn my girlfriend on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3422 days ago

4 May 2005 (? - I've been with my girl since December and I still can't turn her on. I don't think it's completely my fault though, I've tried everything I know and nothing works. She can't get turned on until we're already having sex. This means without lube its painful for her for the first ... (76 words

I have lots of male friends, but I can't seem to form romantic relationships...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3421 days ago

4 May 2005 (? - Hi, I'm worried that there's something stopping me from forming a relationship. I have always had quite a few male friends, men have been interested in me for sex, but I rarely meet anyone who wants to actually have a relationship with me. When I meet someone that I want to ... (174 words

My boyfriend would rather smoke weed than be with me... and it hurts.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3422 days ago

4 May 2005 (? - I am a gay man, 21 years old, my boyfriend of nine months has an addiction to marujana. I have finally gave him an ultimatum of "me or weed" as over the time I repeatedly come second to his addiction both financially and time wise. It really hurts as I love him so very much... (153 words

No sex between us... and I think that it's because he's getting off to porn.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

4 May 2005 (? - Hi, Im going totally crazy at the moment and I dont know what to do please help. Me and my guy are not having sex. Well he tells me that he doesnt want sex and feels that this is putting a strain on things. We always had a high sex drive together and all of a sudden he's ... (383 words

Nothing I do seems good enough for my fiancee and her kids... and I'm always in the wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3421 days ago

4 May 2005 (? - I have a very troubled relationship with my fiancee. It seems every time we get back on our feet something knocks us down again. I gave up the bachelor's life with all its trimmings to move in with her and her two children and I'm doing my level best to be part of this fam... (186 words

My boyfriend's son is keeping us apart... by sleeping in my place!

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4 May 2005 (? - My boyfriend has a boy aged 9 from a previous relationship and I am starting to feel resentful towards him. I don't want to feel like that. But every time he comes to stay at our house he wants to sleep in my bed and I have to go and sleep in the spare room as he also wants my ... (137 words

Since he's been chatting to women on the Web our sex life has slowed right down, and I'm worried...

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4 May 2005 (? - I have been with my fella for over four years now and in the last two years the sex has slowed right down. I am sure he is chatting to women on the internet, as he is coming to bed later and later. He said it is because he doesn't want to have to turn me down and hurt me. He ... (154 words

Is it possible to fall in love with someone you don't fancy at first?

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4 May 2005 (? - I met a guy on holiday last September who I have become good mates with. We have had regular contact via text messaging since being back. I know that he would like us to be more than friends. He is perfect for me. He has all the qualities I look for in a man, we seem to thin... (180 words

I'm wondering if my past experiences might mean I'm bisexual..?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3170 days ago

4 May 2005 (? - When I was younger I had a close friend (a female) and we used to dry hump each other. I don't remember how we ended up even starting it, but we then started to do it every time we were together. Then, one of my other close friends (also a female) and I did the same thing. N... (97 words

Can't seem to stop myself from snooping on my boyfriend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

4 May 2005 (? - I'm a jealous person and I always thinks my man is cheating on me. It gets to the point where I try to figure out his passwords to his emails and stuff, just so I could read his emails to see if he has anything from any other girls. I know it's wrong and probably dumb, but he ... (144 words

My 9-year-old is making trouble with my new partner and I don't know why...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3422 days ago

4 May 2005 (? - Hi, Please help. I don't know what to do. I have 4 kids, one to my present partner. My other kids are having difficulty getting along with my new partner. They always seem to clash. My daughter of 9 years old seems to do whatever she can to make my partner's back up. All we... (126 words

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