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Archived questions from: 31 May, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My wife won't give me a blowjob. She won't even talk about it!

This question has 149 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - I am in a perfect relationship in every way except for one thing. I adore oral sex - nothing else quite does it for me - but I haven't had a complete blowjob for 3 years. When I first met my wife, she did it every time - she even swallowed. But after a couple of months she deci... (409 words)

I'm ready to move our relationship to marriage, but I'm not sure whether my boyfriend is...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6862 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - I've been with my bf for almost 6 years and love him very much. He's 25 and I'm 24. We still don't live together but I see him every day. He says he wants to be with me but right now I'm starting to think we are never going to move out together or get married. I know I'm young ... (95 words)

Little things he does seem to be adding up to "it's over between us". Am I right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6862 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - I am in a relationship and have been for over two years. He has a daughter and I have 5 of my own children. He has a slip disc in his back. For the last 6 months things have not been going well between us....we hardly talk or laugh or have sex. He is also very interested in ... (121 words)

Our mismatched sex drives are making me wonder, "Are we normal"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - Making this short, I've been with my girlfriend for 3+ years and living with her for 2+ years. We are both early 20s. I have a very high sex drive and she has a pretty low one. She will get 'sore' after 15 minutes or so, or she definately will if we go for a second time ... (131 words)

My girlfriend broke up with me and I don't know how to make her understand I only want her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6869 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - I have been with my girl now for nearly 4 months. Recently we have been arguing loads. She has a daughter and rarely gets time to herself, but I like to spend time with her. She says she needs space but I find that hard. She also thinks that I still want to be with my ex ... (94 words)

I think my guy misunderstood the "hot tub incident", but he's stopped calling me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6869 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - I recently went on a few dates with a guy who I got on really well with. Everthing was going well until I went to a party without him and he rang me whilst I was in the hot tub with a few male friends, who happened to be naked. I wasn't. Nothing happened and he seemed fine a... (204 words)

Lately, I just don't get turned on by my boyfriend. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6893 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for 16 months and I love him very much, but lately I'm not sure if it's the same between us. I am a very sexual person but lately I'm just not interested in sex with him. I don't know why I just dont get turned on when I'm with him. I thought ... (177 words)

I feel like my sister is older, prettier and flirtier... and she's trying to get my guy's attention!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6683 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - I really need some help! I'm 15 and have a really low self esteem. Most of that due to my older sister who is 19. She smaller, slimmer and a lot prettier. She can flirt with anyone and I always get people saying to me "is THAT your sister?". I'm getting used to the fact tha... (215 words)

My ex looks like his working through the problems that broke us up, but I feel insecure and unsure about him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - I've been with a man who cheated (massage parlor), smokes a lot of pot, and who gets verbally abusive (sometimes physically aggressive). It's been a year since I moved out and broke it off with him. Now he's showing signs of change, and growth. He would like to work on our ... (134 words)

What can I say to my fiance to try to convince him not to break it off with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I are dating for 4 years and 5 months on the 06/06/2005. He's 25 years old and I am 21 years old. We got engaged on Valentines day and were busy planning to purchase a house. We have gone through so much things simply because we still live with our parents, but ... (381 words)

His ex is back on the scene and suddenly my boyfriend never sleeps over with me any more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6899 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - Dear agony aunt, For the last 4 years I've been dating someone exclusively. He had been going thru a divorce when we first starting dating, well we had our share of problems, but now his ex-wife is back. He says nothing's going on but yet he never sleeps over any more and sex ... (71 words)

We each developed feelings for the other, but she's already regarding me as her boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6898 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - I know this girl from my class back in 2003. Since then, we never talked outside because I was shy until 2005 whereby I started to chat with her often outside and soon, became very close to her. I did develop strong feelings for her and in April, I told her. I confessed to her ... (181 words)

Can I help my tomboy friend to look more like a girl?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - I have this friend named Shay. She's a tomboy but my boyfriend thinks she's gay and sometimes I do too. But I constantly beg her "can i give you a makeover, find you a dress or skirt and fix her your hair?" But when she does try to look like a girl she still looks like a b... (125 words)

Why would my husband comment that I'm a lesbian, when I'm not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6898 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - My husband and I have been married 13 years. But when we argue he makes comments that I'm a lesbian. I'm totally heterosexual. So why does he make those comments?... (30 words)

Can someone tell us some sex positions we can use, so he doesn't keep slipping out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6878 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - Hi, I am in a very loving relationship that seems soon headed for marriage. My question is this... My guy is not all that well endowed and when we try it "doggie style", he keeps slipping out. Can you recommend postions that might make this adventure doable for us? thanks a... (58 words)