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Archived questions from: 13 May, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My guy is 18 years older but he's the one giving the confusing signals!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1158 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - I've been dating a man 18 years my senior (I'm 23, he's 41)for three years now. During those three years we've called it quits twice, and have twice managed to see through our troubles. Prior to our last break-up, we had plans to move in together, become engaged and promptly ... (171 words)

Is my husband being "recruited" into the gay community?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1166 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - My husband thinks he may be gay. The problem with this is that he has never had any thoughts about this before and has never fancied or even thought of being with a man before. The thought of this kind of sex disgusts him. I have found out the other person who has 'attracted ... (236 words)

My current partner and I aren't getting on very well... then along comes and ex who wants me back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1167 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - I need some advice. I am a 41 yr old mother of 2 boys. I have been in a relationship for 6 years. We are not married. We have been fighting a lot and he doesn't get along too well with my youngest child. I am debating on staying with him or not. He did cheat on me within t... (328 words)

Since he knows I have nowhere to go, my b/f uses that when he theatens me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1167 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - I feel so alone and I don't know what to do. I live with my boyfriend and he owns the house. We just had an argument of sorts and he blames it all on me; it wasn't over anything serious. He gets angry pretty quick and can be quite threatening sometimes. He charges towards ... (342 words)

My ex and I ran into each other after 2 years, and it's reignited an old flame.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1166 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - Split with my ex-girlfriend 2 years ago, bumped into her in a club last week. When we were together I was with someone else, I admitted this, we gave it another go but it did not work out, mainly down to trust issues. She never really forgave me for cheating and reminded me of ... (265 words)

I lied to some other kids about the guy I like... and it got back to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1167 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have done the worst thing possible.I've never felt so low.I lied and told some sixth-graders that my crush and I were going out and jokingly advertised my mood ring as our wedding ring. Well,one of my best friends told my crush everything I said,and he got ... (157 words)

Does sex have to be performed naked? Will I look odd if I want to leave some clothes on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1055 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - Hello, My question is about sex. As I am a virgin female aged 20, I am nervous about sex mainly because I don't want to be naked. I am not embarrassed but think it would be nicer to leave some clothes on or use a blanket to feel less exposed but can I do this or will I appear o... (105 words)

Thinking about having sex with my boyfriend, but I don't know how he really feels about me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - Hi, I've known my bf for like 5 months now, but we have only just started going out. I don't know if he actually likes me. We live far apart and he is always busy at the weekends. My mate lives like down the road from him and I usually go to her house to see him, but my parents ... (148 words)

Should I give up on the girl who doesn't want a relationship right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1167 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - There is this girl that I like. She told me that right now she doesn't want a relationship. I told her, then I guess this is good bye and she said, why. Do you think she likes me or not? Should I give up on her?... (46 words)

He's thoughtless and selfish and he teases me... even so, I worry about leaving him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1164 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - Dear Agony aunt, I've been in a relationship with my partner for 3 years, and at first he behaved respectably and we had wonderful times together. Now its the opposite as he constantly teases me over myself, culture and even my 17 year daughter! I'm really fond of him pl... (239 words)

I'm being accused of lying and hiding things from my husband... but they're more like half-truths. Aren't they?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1167 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - I have been married since 1989 and with my husband since we were both 17 years old. For about the past year, maybe a little more than that, we have been fighting about stuff like him thinking I am lying to him and hiding things from him. I admit I have hid some things, ... (122 words)

One drunked kiss might ruin our "perfect relationship". Should I forget and forgive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1093 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - Hi there, I've been going out with my girlfriend for two and half years and we recently been speaking about marriage. She has been crying a lot recently for no reason and when I ask her whats wrong she tells me "nothing in particular, just everything". But recently sh... (257 words)

He tells me that the porn mags and movies are no big deal, but they are to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1158 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - I have been with this guy for 5 yrs. He is not a very open person, it is just the way his family is. Anyway, I'm 37 and he is 27. He recently proposed. I accepted. I have never been married nor has he. I do have 2 teenagers but they are not the problem. The problem is, the ... (288 words)

Everything is so good with my girlfriend, so why do I have recurrent thoughts about my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1167 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid I've been with my current girlfriend for nearly 19 months years and I love her with all my heart. Everything is great between us. For some reason, every now and again, I think of my ex fiance who I was with for over 3 years. Me and my ex fiance broke up ar... (153 words)

He dumped me to go live with his baby's mother. Was I just used?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1167 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - I have been seeeing a guy called Mike for about 5 months now, but lately he wants to end the relationship and go back to his baby's mother, he has a two year old daughter with her. He says he doesn't want to hurt me but he misses his daughter very much and feels like the only... (163 words)

We split up just months before the wedding; now he has a new girlfriend. Can we fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1168 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - I am 26 years old and my ex partner is 32. We split up about ten weeks ago, two days after his birthday where we had a brilliant day and he told me that he spent it will the most important thing in his life. We had been engagement for two years and living together. Our ... (410 words)

I can't seem to stop feeling sad and worthless, but I want to feel good and special...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 815 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - I am 32 year old woman from South Africa, and while searching Google I found your web-site. I am hoping that I can get some help from you as I have reached the end of my tether. I am an overweight woman, not obese, and not unattractive. I have tried dieting, but have be... (375 words)

Concentrating so hard on first-time sex that I lost my erection. Oh no!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 674 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - I was having sex for the first time. It was with my new girlfriend. We were going at it, and about 5 minutes in I got really nervous and completely lost my erection. I have been dwelling on it so much that it's actually killing me. WHAT DO I DO? NEED ADVICE ... (57 words)

How can I convince mum and dad to loosen up and let me date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1169 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - My mom and dad are good parents but for some reason they won't let me date. I'm 14 and in high school but my mom doesn't trust anybody! A boy can't even call me without getting cussed out by my mom. It's sooo embarrassing. I'm mature for my age and I know how to respect ... (80 words)

I know I can't have her, because she already has a boyfriend, but we have something special...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1168 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - What's Up Doc? Look I am a college student who came from the South Pacific to study in the US four years ago. When I finally had the chance to go back to visit my hometown down in the Pacific, I met this old friend of mine. We used to be classmates in high school and ba... (922 words)

My b/f says he loves me, but we never talk and he doesn't want to spend time with me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years,. Things were great at first, but now he hardly talks to me. I was supposed to move in with him about two months ago, but didn't. He says he loves me, but I'm not so sure. He goes out drinking with his friends, he doesn't spend any time... (74 words)

After 4 years, he's ready to move in together, but not to get married...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1169 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - My boyfriend of four years asked me to move in with him. I want to get married. He says, "This will be a new beginning for us and will lead to marriage." I feel like since we've been together for so long, why do we need this? He's been iffy about getting married for awhile now. ... (84 words)