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Archived questions from: 8 May, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I couldn't stand it if my gf's ex made a move on her, but she won't allow me to defend her, either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1173 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - I'll make this as short as I can, because I really need help on this. I'm 20 years old, two years out of high school, and so is my gf. Our school is already having a reunion for all alumni (I know, it's stupid). I have no interest in going, but my gf is really looking ... (329 words)

I just want some time together and alone by ourselves. Am I unreasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1173 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - My boyfriend is the best person I've been with - when he's around (he's at uni) and we're together, he's lovely and I'm so happy. However, at the moment, I'm getting increasingly upset because I've noticed we don't actually do much together. When he's back home, he'll share ... (139 words)

Don't know whether to marry my "a-bit-boring" boyfriend, or not!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - I have been with boyfriend for over 5 years now and we are about to get married this year. We also have a place together. In the beginning I was truly in love with him and couldn't imagine my life without him, but as time went by I fell out of love and problems started ... (177 words)

I sometime fantasise about my best girlfriend. Does that make me a lesbian?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - A while ago I told one of my best girlfriends that I fancied her and she was OK with it. She is a year above me but we are stil really good mates. I think about her all the time and don't know what to do. The other day I told her that I loved her. I think that she is really g... (102 words)

She initiated our relationship & doesn't want to end it, but we never go out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1170 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - I started going out with a lady from work. She started everything when she asked me out. I did have an interest but she initiated things. It started out slow because I did not want to move too fast and the relationship end up failing and us still having to work together. I ... (314 words)

His dad says he can't marry me and that my b/f has to have a traditional, arranged marriage...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - Should I stay or go? I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now, we are very much in love and want to get married. We are both Asian, of the same religion; however I never knew how strict his parents were. Over 2 months ago, he told his dad he was seeing me and wanted t... (172 words)

Ever since my 14th birthday, I've been upset that guys don't seem to fancy me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1173 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - I'm really upset because I'm 14 now and I've never had a boyfriend. I've never even kissed a boy and ever since my 14th birthday it's really gotten to me and I've been really upset. I don't think I'm very ugly but guys dont seem to fancy me. I know boys aren't really importan... (70 words)

Torn between being a good friend and going out with someone I like...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1173 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - Hi, I'm not sure what to do. This man has been texting me for weeks now and I really like him. The problem is I met an old friend last week and she was saying how much she likes this man who has been texting me. I didn't say anything cuz I thought that would be rubbing ... (195 words)

Trust and friendship are definitely in our relationship... but we keep arguing the same point.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1173 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - Hi, Six months ago I got back with my first and only love. We were 19 when we first started dating and went out for a year and a half. It didn’t work out for several reasons but we never stopped thinking about each other and what could have been. We have been really happ... (222 words)

Does my guy just have a lot of problems with his life and health, or is he avoiding me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1172 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - I'm 23 years old and am seeing a guy who is 16 years older than me. We met in the workplace - he started chatting me up in January this year and we finally went out for the first time two months later. I have only had one previous boyfriend before - when I was 21 - and tha... (788 words)

There's a big difference in the size of my penis, between when it's soft and when it's hard...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1174 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - Hi, I'm worried and confused at my penis size, I'm 16 and it's about 6-7cms long at most times, sometimes as small as 4cms but when erect its 6.0-6.5". I thought (maybe I am just different) that when erect they are like 1-2 inches bigger, but not this huge difference. ... (104 words)

Was I stupid to tell her to get back with her boyfriend, when we love each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1173 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - Hello, please help!! right... Theres a girl that I am absolutely in love with, and she told me she feels the same! She has been going out with her boyfriend for nearly 2 years now, and last weekend she dumped him so that she could consider me as an option. However, I let... (205 words)

Having sex with my boyfriend just seems to leave me... embarrassed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1174 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - I am 19 and have been seeing my boyfriend, who is 21, for 11 months. We have had an sexual life for 6 months and neither of us have ever had sex with anyone else. When we do have sex, during and afterwords I don't feel great and happy like my boyfriend, I just feel embarras... (193 words)

I never worried about cheating before, but now I've heard my new guy had a fling with his ex's sister!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1173 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - I have been seeing this really great guy for about 2 months now. We get on really well and he is great with my kids. The thing is I found out today that last year he had a fling with his ex-girlfriend's sister. Usually this wouldn't bother me, but he is still quite close to her ... (126 words)

I'm worried about my kids growing up with such an abusive man, but I'm also scared to leave...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1173 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - I'm worried about my marriage. I have been with my husband for four years, married for three,and we have two kids, my daughter aged nine from a previous relationship, and our son, aged two. Sometimes, but not often, my husband is ok, but most often he is foul tempered and alwa... (467 words)

I just can't say 'I love you', even though my partner says it to me.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - I have had long-term relationships in the past and loved every single guy but they never really loved me back until I met my current partner. He is always telling me he loves me but I just can't say it back. I don't understand why. Pls help. ... (47 words)

When he didn't treat me well last year, I walked away... but what if he wants another chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1173 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - Y was a 19 year old guy who worked with my male best friend; My friend told me Y liked me, then gave Y my phone number. Y sent me a text, and we met up once. I was 16 (last summer) and this was the moment of my first kiss. We in fact kissed lots throughout the afternoo... (291 words)

He confuses me. It seemed like we clicked straightaway, but he never asked me out..!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1175 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - I have a situation. At the beginning of the school year I met this new guy at school. We clicked right away and would flirt in every class we had together, walk everywhere together, very touchy feely type of situation with the long hugs etc. Also we are both athletes and ... (277 words)