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I'm wondering if my past experiences might mean I'm bisexual..?

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Question - (4 May 2005) 8 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2006)
A , *lindedxoxo writes:

When I was younger I had a close friend (a female) and we used to dry hump each other. I don't remember how we ended up even starting it, but we then started to do it every time we were together. Then, one of my other close friends (also a female) and I did the same thing.

Now years later, I always seem to find myself wanting to know what it's like to be with a girl. I know I like guys, but I'm still questioning on the fact that I may be bisexual. Any advice?

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A female reader, liloldugly +, writes (12 January 2006):

The same thing was shown to me by an older kid, and I

showed a couple other kids. You know you like guys.

I think curiosity is normal. Why do you think your

thoughts are related to this?

Regards.

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A reader, alison +, writes (25 May 2005):

I don't think you're gay or bisexual. I think these feelings you are having is just curiosity. Don't do anything with a girl unless you are in love with her and are sure it's what you want.

If you are bisexual or lesbian then don't be ashamed by it. Girls do have a lot that boys don't and they can be a lot more mature. There are many bisexuals and lesbians around so you wont be alone.

Good luck with it and I hope this helps you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2005):

I recommend that you never touch another girl in that way because then that will make you bisexual, but do not think you're bisexual because you were young. You didn't know about any kinds of sex life.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2005):

my boyfriend is bisexual and i think its cool! plus any guys you date will get of on it!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2005):

Try it and you'll find out for sure. I did and I feel comfortable with my sexuality.

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A reader, kirstie +, writes (4 May 2005):

Dear whoever,

You might be a bisexual, but try lads out to find out if you like them more. If not, you are a bisexual.

Kirstie

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2005):

You did not state how old you are now but I think that perhaps this was just a childhood thing. You probably feel that what you did was wrong but you should be aware that this was part of growing up and feeling your sexuality but this doesn't mean your are bi-sexual. Even if you find you are....there are worse things in life than liking the best of both worlds.

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A reader, trusty +, writes (4 May 2005):

It doesn't also mean that you're bisexual, just because you experimented a little bit when you were younger. It's part of growing up! NO girl can deny the fact that they haven't looked at another girl and wondered!

If you really want to experience what it would be like to be with a girl, go on your own to a lesbian bar and see what happens. No one will know but the girl you end up with. There's no harm in finding out what you're realy about.

In my own opinion being bisexual is the best sexuality any one can be, you can have the best of both worlds. Hope you find out soon who you really are !!

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