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Archived questions from: 15 May, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

It's hard to choose romantically between my distant boyfriend and one of my close friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1166 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I've got a dilemma. I'm 18 and gay. I've been with my boyfriend for a while now but he lives a long way away so I don't get to see him much except at weekends. I love him very much, but the trouble is I'm in love with one of my best friends too. I've not cheated on my boyfriend ... (81 words)

How can I catch the interest of my old boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1166 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - Hello....I have a problem. I used to date this boy and we were going steady for 5 months, then he broke up with me. It's been 3 months since we broke up and I still have feelings for him. I can tell he likes me but he has a girlfriend. Me and him hang out every day and the more ... (99 words)

Catch 22. I won't change unless she'll marry me, but she won't marry me unless I change.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1159 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I have committed everything I can to the relationship that I am in. We are on a tight schedule because we both want kids and we want to start trying in Jan 2006. Given these and other constraints I want to get engaged. I have asked and been turned down (to my surprise given ... (157 words)

When we're apart, I keep worrying that my b/f is going to find out he's too good for me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1165 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I keep questioning the relationship between my boyfriend and I. I analyze every little thing he says in letters, emails, on a site we both use, on the phone. I don't do it as often when him and I are together in person. I'm not sure what to make of it. Perhaps I'm afraid o... (107 words)

The girl I want says she loves me, but she has a boyfriend who used to be my best mate...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1167 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I've never wrote to any websites before but I have a big problem that is really depressing me. There is a girl in my school that I love and she says that she loves me. Over the last two days we almost had sex, I was fine with this but she was not, as she has a boyfriend. The ... (204 words)

We got engaged, we broke up, then we got back together, but we still haven't discussed it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1159 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I've been dating a guy for almost three years. We got engaged about a year and a half ago but two months later he freaked out and we broke up. A month later we got back together but he said he just wasn't ready to get married and to give him a few months. We've never really ... (93 words)

Orgasm is so easy when I masturbate... why can't I do it when I have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1144 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - Since the first time I had sex, I have trouble reaching orgasm. I can do it when I masturbate, but it is a lot harder to due during sex. What's wrong with me, why is it so hard to cum during copulation?... (42 words)

My heart tells me this guy is The One, but we're only friends right now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1167 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - How good is a woman's intuition? I met a man a few years ago and instantly thought he looked liked a wonderful person - the kind of man you could marry. We didn't really know each other then though. But over the last 6 months we've been back in contact and we've really got to ... (175 words)

I'm enrolled in a degree course, but my husband still expects me to do 100% of the housework!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1159 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I have just spent eleven years raising my children and want to do something for myself. So I started a degree course, my husband minded but because it meant fewer argument. He allowed me to do this course, the only problem is that he expected me to do the housework as well as ... (413 words)

I can't forget that my last b/f cheated, but I don't want that to affect my great, new relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1167 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I dated a guy for a 1 and a half years, and for the first 6 months it seemed perfect, but it then turned sour, yet because I was so in love with him I kept the relationship going. I found out that during the summer he had slept with another girl on holiday in Corfu yet it w... (203 words)

No sex for 18 months, but my wife says it's not me. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1166 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I am a married man, with what I think is a wonderful woman. We have our problems just like all couples do, but we work them out and get along for the most part. We have been married for 6yrs now, and have two boys. Since our first son my wife's sex drive has fallen to zero, I ... (152 words)

My friends bought me a vibrator... but I'm too tight to use it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I am still a virgin, but my friends bought me a vibrator for my birthday.I want to use it but when I tried for the first time it really hurt. I think my vagina is too tight. Is there any way I a "stretch" my vagina muscles?... (47 words)

I was too shy to talk to him, but that didn't stop my friend chatting him up..!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1159 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - Hi, Hope you can help. My mate's friend has been texting me and we were getting on really well. I've never actually had a proper conversation with him other than texting but I've known him for years. The last weekend, we met at a nightclub and I didn't know what to say or d... (143 words)

I'm playing around because I suspect that he either is... or will be...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1167 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I am having problems with my boyfriend. The relationship started as an affair from his end - he got caught and I gave him a temporary place to stay (my bed). Six months later it seems he is still there. I have an opinion of "they do it with you, they do it to you" so have res... (174 words)

I've heard you're either "single & lonely" or "married & bored". True? False?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - Hey, I am nearing a huge fork in the road of my life. I'm with a girl now, about to move in together for the second time and maybe end up getting married in a few years, having kids and all that. I have "cold feet" I guess, because I wonder what it would be like to be free ... (200 words)

Facts about his past years are coming to light. Why wouldn't he tell me himself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1149 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I am 20 and my boyfriend is 28. We get along really well and we have been dating for 8 months. My issue is, he has been engaged before, and has also lived with someone. He never told me that he was engaged or that he lived with someone. I found out from someone else. When I... (291 words)

After she met her ex and had dinner with him, I don't feel I can trust her any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1159 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I have been with my g/f now for 1 year and 6 months but her ex won't leave her alone, and nor will she, texting saying he loves her. Anyway, a few moths ago she went to meet him behind my back, stayed with him 3 hours, had dinner. He brought her home but she said nothing ... (67 words)

When he's on the phone with the bedroom door shut, he tells me I'm imagining it. What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1167 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - Hi I'm 21 and my husband is 22. We've been married for 4 years with 2 daughters. He's always speaking to someone on the phone wih the bedroom door locked and when I ask him who was on the phone to he just says that I'm imagining it. Also when it was our first Valentines he gave ... (109 words)