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Archived questions from: 18 May, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

A guy asked me out twice in a month... but I'm not sure if it was a dare.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1165 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - This guy in my school asked me out a month ago. A few days ago he asked me out again and was stammering really badly. When I left, his friends started laughing, not him. My friends tell me it was a dare that his friends told him to do, but why did he ask me out a month ago? Was ... (87 words)

She takes goes to parties and she takes drugs sometimes. I love her, but hate the drugs!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1164 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I have been with my girlfriend for 1.5 years - we have a very strong relationship - in the past she has occasionally gone out to parties and taken drugs, she went out the other weekend and did it, had the best time (she says)... I don't like it at all - I have big issues with ... (117 words)

It's hard to keep a conversation flowing with my new guy... Is he shy? Intimidated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1161 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I've just started dating this guy but I can't tell if he's shy or intimidated by me! I had to make the first move because of his shyness, and when we go out together i have to instigate all conversation. I really like him and don't want to give up on him but his shyness is f... (84 words)

My male friend seems to be pursuing me... even though he has a girlfriend already!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1165 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I have a male friend who I get on very well with. A few months back when I first got to know him we had a cheeky snog. Unbeknown to me had a girlfriend. I was a bit annoyed but thought that it would be the end of it especially as I was going to uni. 6 months later I saw him ... (201 words)

My boy mate asked me out, but he's a year younger than me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1164 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I was asked out by a boy and he's my mate. He's 1 year younger than me and I dunno if I should go out with him. please help... (29 words)

A difficult choice: two men want to marry me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1164 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - Wealthy man or sexy man? I have two chasing me, and almost cannot believe how this blew up all of a sudden. One is stable and caring, another is like lightning bolts in terms of our chemistry, and just kissing him gives me chills. It would be practical to accept the ... (196 words)

I wanted to hear him say sweet things to me, but he wouldn't oblige...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 615 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - Last night I asked my boyfriend to talk "sweet" to me and to tell me nice things. He said that he wouldn't and he did not have anything nice to say to me. He really hurt my feelings and I am at the point that I kind of want to break up with him. What should I do? This is not ... (78 words)

What's wrong with me? Why am I be punished for what other women did to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1164 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I am living with my bf for nine months, known him for 3yrs. I'm wearing a promise ring he gave me, but for months now he tells me he loves me but that he can't love me to the fullest the way I want. He has had other gfs in the past and went to the extremes to please them but he ... (184 words)

Sometimes she's nice, sometimes a bitch, sometimes she tries to flirt... It's so confusing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1145 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I am a fifteen year old girl and very confused. I have a girlfriend who I feel has been coming on to me. Is she attracted to me? I don't what to do, but we are not talking to each other anymore after a row we had after sobering from a drunken party. She still stares at me wh... (135 words)

If he loves me like he says he does, why can't my boyfriend stop calling his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - dear friend. I have been with my boyfriend nearly a year and a half. Not long I know, but my longest one yet. My boyfriend and his ex girlfriend text each other. He says he loves me and has no feelings for her, so why can't he just stop ringing her and stuff? Am I just being pa... (87 words)

Madly in love with my girlfrend, but her communication skills really suck!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1160 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - Hi. Should I forget about her? I'm madly in love with this girl and she knows it. I call her all the time, and for the most part she calls me to return my calls. Ssometimes she calls me just without me calling. I told her I want a relationship and she says she don't want one... (122 words)

I'm so attracted to the guy I work with and I know the feeling is mutual... but what if I say something and it backfires?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1160 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I am seriously fond of this guy that I work with and really are really good friends at the moment, but for months on end I have really have deep loving feelings towards him and I know that he has towards me, because the way he hints diffent things towards me. Also I knew it was ... (106 words)

Do I ignore the rumour and trust my boyfriend, or might there be some truth to it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1155 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year now. However, I have been overseas for the past month. We agreed to stay together but last time we spoke he told me that there was a rumor about him and a girl back home and he wanted to let me know about it before I heard on my ... (111 words)

I told my parents too much about the disagreements with my ex, and they don't want me back with him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1160 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I was in a relationship that was very good 90% and volatile 10%..I told my parents too much about that. I had went out with someone that was wonderful but still in love with ex. We have been talking again and would like to make things work but now my parents will make me ... (73 words)

An internet "date" just won't leave me alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1165 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - A few months ago I was single and decided to give internet dating a try. I had dates with a couple of people, one of which I got on with well as a friend and I said I would see again. However, I then met a guy who I completely fell for, and I am now seeing. I emailed the pe... (322 words)

Should I leave where I live, to stay with my boyfriend? I'm not sure I love him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1160 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years now. He travels for his job in another Estate of the country three days a week. I feel lonely and want us to be together all the time instead. He asked me to come and leave with him near his job, but I disagree with tha... (247 words)

My wife can't seem to stay away from speed... or the guy she gets it from.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1165 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I have been together with Caroline for 12 years and married for 11. She is 41 and I am 43. Both us us knew it wasn't right to have children in previous relationships, but felt it was right for us and we have a 4 1/2 year old daughter. We've recently had financial proble... (466 words)

Am I being "wound up", is he flirting or is this guy just touchy-feely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1165 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I was in the pub on Friday evening, the guy next to me was my hubby's mate and he had his puppy with him. Every so often I had been leaning over to give the pup some bits of food and to stroke him. (Unfortunately it was a case of leaning in front of/resting on the guy's leg to ... (353 words)

I just don't trust him any more. Is it time to let him go, or do we try to work it out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1165 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I have been dating this guy for 2 years. He was controlling, and for a while I thought I'd be the one breaking up with him. He came back home from college because he was homesick and then found an apartment, where he moved in, with his cousin. I then find out that he's bee... (165 words)

I like to fantasise about other women, but I'm still sure that I'm straight and my bf doesn't understand!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1145 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - My fiance has found out that I have sexual fantasies about women and now he thinks I am gay. He doesn't believe me when I tell him that it is just a fantasy. I don't think I could ever be with a woman physically, but I do enjoy fantasising about them. I have never question... (82 words)

I get irritated when my b/f tells me to "relax", even when I know it's the right thing to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1165 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I've been having quite a strained relationship with my bf lately. Firstly we don't really see each other very often, only about once a week, so we don't have the luxury of time when it comes to solving our issues. He feels that I need to relax more, especially when I'm tell... (124 words)

I'm engaged to marry the father of my kids, but he doesn't thrill me like I wish he did!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1165 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I just got engaged to the father of my two children. Last year he went really strange and broke up with me while I was pregnant then I found out he had started seeing somebody else... It took him a year but he realised his mistakes and regrets them every day and I have no doubt ... (204 words)

Although I'm engaged, I want to ask someone from work to hang out. What do I do about my fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1165 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I am engaged to be married - I started this new job and I am VERY attracted to someone here that is single and we flirt back and forth often. I want to ask this person to hang out but I don't know what to do about my fiance. Please help! ... (56 words)

How should I respond when my boyfriend kisses me on the cheek?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1141 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - Ok, I recently got a new boyfriend, and I really like him. The other day he kissed me on the cheek, and I didn't know what to do. I want to show him that I care about him, and I liked it when he kissed me, I just don't know how to respond. So, my question is: how should I ... (78 words)