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If my ex thinks he was "stupid" to break up with me, should I think about us getting back together?

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Question - (4 May 2005) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

HELP! My ex broke up with me about a month and a half ago. I went out w/ him for about a year. I loved him so much, and I was really hurt when he broke up with me. He thought I would hate him, but I really didn't. I still really liked him. It made me lose some trust in him so I don't think I loved him as much, but I at least still really liked him. I mean hey, I'm only 13, so I don't know if it was really love because he was only my first bf...so anyways I wanted to know the real reason for him breaking up with me, so I emailed him (it's the only way I can contact him anymore it seems like) and this is the answer I got...

To tell you the honest truth i think it was part stupidity on my part. I'm

kind of regretting it now. I hope that clears it up a little bit more but if you

cant figure it out just call me stupid.

and thats it! So I dont know if I should try to get back together with him, or if I should just stick it out until we both move on with our lives. PLEASE HELP ME! thanks in advance

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A reader, star3482 +, writes (9 May 2005):

if he thinks he can have you back whenever he wants, he wont want you. i'd send one back saying ahh well, was lovely while it lasted. and leave it like that, then wait till he asks you back

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2005):

I really think you should email him back and tell him you will not be messed about with. He can't just finish with you then change his mind when he feels like it; he is messing with your emotions. You are still young and I honestly think you could do a lot better just having fun with your friends and I am sure you will meet a nice guy who who will not be 'stupid'.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2005):

Aahh! Young love! I remember back when I was young! Relationships wasn't took seriously at that age! But if you think you have found love then you stick at it. You have a long life ahead of you, so don't worry if it doesn't work out. There will always be someone else. You're only 13. I agree with him, yes he was stupid to let you go,and the fact that he acknowledges it too. I couldn't be more happier for you!

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