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writes: Split with my ex-girlfriend 2 years ago, bumped into her in a club last week. When we were together I was with someone else, I admitted this, we gave it another go but it did not work out, mainly down to trust issues. She never really forgave me for cheating and reminded me of this last week in the club on a few occasions. However she rang me late that night apologising for being nasty and that was that.She is with someone nearly two years likewise myself, but again on my birthday she rang me to apologise again saying she did not remember ringing me on the 1st occasion, although I suspect she rang as she remembered it was my birthday. We chatted for 10 minutes on the cell, she seemed a bit upset, plus it was kinda awkward conversation so I said goodbye and that was that. But since these developments in the last week I can't stop thinking about her. It's reignited my flame I had thought had just about gone out, and obviously with her ringing me on my birthday and before she is thinking of me. Maybe it's just me, hoping for something to come out of nothing, as I never wanted us to break up initially, it was her request.Does she want me back? I wish I knew. As mentioned I am happy in my relationship and I think she is too, but after two years of not hearing from my ex,to this situation in the present day! Advice would be great!Cheers
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reader, TINKYWINKY +, writes (15 May 2005):
Cheers folks! Thanks!
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (14 May 2005):
 Does it matter if she does want you back? It shouldn't. You said you are in a relationship and happy. Are you really? It strikes me that for you to have these thoughts about your ex suggests that you can't be entirely happy in your current relationship.If you have cheated before while with your ex, it looks almost as if you could cheat again with your ex!Stop! If you really want to know if your ex wants you back and if you still have feelings for her, let your current girlfriend go. It isn't fair on her. Even if your ex doesn't want you back, you shouldn't be harbouring thoughts about her.Think about what you really want. Either, stop thinking about your ex and don't answer calls from her and remain with your girlfriend. Or let your girlfriend go and give yourself much needed time to figure out what it is you really want from a relationship.Good luck.
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reader, Dear auntie +, writes (14 May 2005):
Ooo, tough one. Be careful, she may be trying to reel you in before she gives you a nasty nip! Revenge? If you give in, you will repeating history! Remember the good memories and move on.
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