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writes: Dear Agony aunt,I've been in a relationship with my partner for 3 years, and at first he behaved respectably and we had wonderful times together. Now its the opposite as he constantly teases me over myself, culture and even my 17 year daughter!I'm really fond of him plus his kids too, but, can't take his attitude anymore as I feel very stressed out. Tried talking to him over returning his jokes and agnoring, this does'nt help.He does'nt treat or take me out anywhere except over his interest in rugby alongside his kids at weekends.He stays at my place for six nights a week. I cook, without him paying a penny although he used to give £5.00 per day (only!) for meals and now admitted being in debt. I've got to breaking point as I can't communicate with him in a civilised way and feel verbally harassed. Therefore, thinking of ending it for all as I keep giving him chances and deserve to be with someone who appreciates.Finding it hard to break up as I feel that the world is going to crumble over missing him etc. He know how I feel and thats why he is probably taking me for granted, who knows!Look forward to hearing from you in the near future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2005): Hiya sweetheart.I think that the best thing that you can possibly do to save your sanity and self respect is to love yourself enough to know that you deserve better than you have with this guy.It may hurt you initially but the old saying that time is a great healer really is true.Believe me i know from more than one experience.Besides which if you don`t make a clean break now you may never know how it feels to be with someone who will love you for you and respect you too.Think to yourself can i see myself spending the rest of my life as i am now and with the person i`m with now.If you can then fair enough but if not then you know in your heart of hearts what you really need to do.I hope this helps you out.Take car, good luck and love and respect yourself even if he doesn`t ok.
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