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Archived questions from: 9 September, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

How should I aproach my crush, who I haven't seen for months, without looking desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3286 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - this time last year i became envolved with someone we wernt official or anything but we were seeing each other for about 8 months i was in love with him but never told him as hes not the type of lad who will settle down. he moved abroad in may and i ...

How should I flirt with him without looking desperate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I'm almost 17 and i never had a relationship before... Now i have a crush on guy that we are on the same class and we' re sitting sometimes together, but i don't know what to do, how to approach him. I'm afraid that i'm gonna make fool of myself. Do ...

What does it mean when someone kisses you on the head?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - im gonna explain this in brief, it was a week since i have last seen him, today, we go out a bunch of us, as we are waiting for a friend, for different reasons, the guy i like(and i am starting to think likes me back) get out of the car, then he ...

How do I cope with my husband's reaction to my past?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I met my husband when I was 17. I told him I was a virgin but I wasn't. Below is the story. Its a bit long but you need to understand the circumstances. Please bear with it I really need some good advice. At just 16, I met a 23 year old guy ...

What's the best way to tell her I fancy her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - me and my girlfriend split up a few days ago, and now i have a full on crush with one of my girl mates. ive know this girl mate for 2 years she use to date one of my friends but we are both single now, her n her partner split up the same day as me n ...

These girls that hate me for no reason have been filling his head with stuff! What's going on with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - In order to answer this question, you have to read this one: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-no-clue-what-hes-thinking-does.html Okay, today something else happened. A few weeks ago, I wrote a blog on my myspace and there are 4 gir...

What can I do about the feelings I have for my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - well see im not very good or big with emotions but i think i might like one of my jrotc teachers i dont know why but i do and it hurts when he's not teaching that day. please help....

How can I aproach this guy and talk to him without sounding desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - okay.... please help im getting insane ! hahahaha okay, im 16 and i talk to guys .. but not really... people see me as shy when talking to guys... there's this guy tho... he's in my resistance training class and OMG, i like want him soo bad....

Where exactly is my G-spot and what can I do with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - This is such an embarrassing question... where is my G-spot and how do I use it?...

Is it normal to keep on wanting sex but when there's a chance to get it to not want it anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Is it normal wanting to have sex constantly .. but then when i see a lad and they try to come onto me i dont want it but even when i mess about with my friends .. (girls) i still dont want it ?? help x...

What can I do to stop worrying about my boyfriend's fidelity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Ok well I met this guy.. I fell in love.. Usual stuff really! Well he's been distant with me lately... And he is on holiday and not even texting me... Oh he is in the saem country so he can it is possible... And I know it is also possible that he is ...

I've never had an orgasm, but I don't like masturbating... Is there any hope?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - My problem is this - I've never had an orgasm. I've read a lot of tips that advise you to explore and touch yourself, but masturbation really doesn't appeal to me, and the times I've tried have only left me bored and somewhat frustrated. I...

What can I do to prevent any accidents during my period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - ok this is embaressing but i started having my peroid about 4 months ago and it's been pretty regular but i have no cramps or warining signs so i don't know when or were it will happen and i'm afraid that it might happen while i'm at school so any ...

Should I tell my sister what her husband did to me when I was younger? Or should I just tell him to stay away from my children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - When I was about 11 my sister's husband touched my breasts and asked me if I "want to have some fun and games". I knew instantly that this was wrong and said NO and moved away from him. He then said he was just joking and didnt mean anything by it. ...

Am I actually blacking out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - ok so my mom and me were talking about school and i told her that i can't remeber most of my math class because i was tuneing out. she asked me what i was day dreaming about and i told her that i don't know. see when i tune out i mean i tune out i ...

Am I wrong for feeling upset about him looking at porn?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I don't know if it's just me or not but i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 9 months and i found out that he was looking at porn on the interent when we first starting dating and a few times after that, I know its normal but it gets me quite ...

What can I do to make my periods less heavy and painful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - hello everyone i have a menstrual problem, im on the rod thing and the pill as well, i had my period for the first time in about a year or so bout 3 weeks ago, ive got them again and alot more heavier and alot more painful, what do you suggest? ...

Am I wrong for wanting my own space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Right OK. Basically I want to know if I'm right. I feel that my girlfriend of nearly 2 years is expecting way too much from me. We only live across the street, and I'm a very private person who loves their own space. Tonight (but lots of othe...

What can I do about this boy who likes me? I just see him as a friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - hi aunts and uncles! i have a really bad 'crush' issue!!! its a total mega cringeeee. right i used to fancy this boy but i found out he had a girlfriend and i got over him that was a while ago and recently ive started to like this other lad. but...

Could I possibly be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - hi im 18 years old and bout 4 days ago me and my boyfriend had sex and he injected in me 3 times in a row and today i been feel kinda weird like my stomach feels like its getting tight every now and than and my breast been hurting a little and i ...

Is the tingling feeling in my penis normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Im 11 and last week i started getting a tingling feeling in my penis and it makes me really horny. It happens 2 or 3 times a day,normaly when i wake up. any ideas why its happening. im not saying that i want it to go away cuz it feels really good ...

I'm afraid that if I choose one of them, the other one will get hurt! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - This boy says he realy likes me and i realy like him but this other says he likes me and i like him aswell i dont know what to do!!! if i go out with one boy its going to hurt the other boys feelings!!!! what shall i do??...

Should I confront my boyfriend about what he did to me while I was drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Last weekend I got drunk on my boyfriend's farm. I remember very little execpt for the part where I think he raped me. I remember being in the bathroom and him coming in behind me and making me lay on the floor. I told him I wanted to go back ...

How can I become more active during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - hey everybody i was just hoping for some advice for a really embarrassing situation im in so here goes... ive been together with my partner for about 8 months and he was the first one that i gave my virginity to and it was a really big thing...

Does this mean I'm addicted to masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Recently i discovered the joy of masterbating and the truth is that it has been great. However, i have been doing it a lot, sometimes 3-4 times a day, and when i have the oppurtunity to do it but it is inappropriate(e.g at home doing work) i find i ...

My boyfriend's friends don't like me! How do I talk to him about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I need some advice on what to do about my boyfriends friends. When we first got together they kept saying things about me including his brother. I didn't let this get to me to much but one day it just really upset me and I cried in school. My ...

How do you get close to someone when they don't even know who you are?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - helloooo well i kinda have this mini crush on this lad, i dont know him at all so its kinda lust at the mo but i suppose im curious about him, you know when you have the feeling you just want to be close to them or speak to them or somethin...

Any advice about going through my periods??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - hi, I started my periods a while ago and it was really hard telling my mum but i did eventually ive started again for the second time and i dont really wanna go though telling her again. I'm not close to my mum. She has stocked me up with thousand...

How can I break-up with him while remaining friends??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we've been best mates since primary. The problem is that i want to break up with him, but want to stay best friends. I'm afraid that if we do break up, it could jeopardize our friendship. What should i do? ...

Just gave birth and my partner bailed to his ex, is he cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I recently given birth to my first child 9weeks ago, my man went to prison when i was 4months pregnant and was only just released. He was bailed out to his ex girlfriends house who he also has a child with because i currently had 2 move in with my ...

How can I tease my boyfriend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - i need your help on this one, how can i tease my bf, i am new at this...and at this, he always finds a way to tease me by pulling my hair or pinching me slightly, but i can never seem to do so myself, i mean i return a pinch,, but what more else can ...

Too much competition for her, do I stand a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - hey im great freinds with her but i know my other freind is trying to get her to like him aswell the thing is i have her number i gave it to him now hes texting her all the time and I'm not we just talk a little bit on the internet and I know i like ...

My girlfriend just wants to be friends now. How do I get her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - i had a girlfreind who just wants to be freinds now. i wana be more then that what should i do ...

Do you think he means what he says? Do you think I'm going to lose him??? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I have known this lad for 5 months.. it doesnt seem that long but it feels like it's been forever .. the other night we was sat in his house and we was having a drink and just talking and having a little kiss and that .. but he stopped and i was sat ...

I love him, he loves another. Now another boy likes me, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - i am in school. i love a boy from the first day of school. after 6 or 7 months i came to know that he loves my best friend. i don't know that if she loves him or not. but i still love him. recently a boy proposed me. i too like that boy, but as a ...

How close should I be as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - This guy said he liked me. then said he didn't. i found out it was cause of another girl. we're still good friends. but now he's dating the other girl. how close should i be as as friend?...

Should I wait for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I'm 15.I asked out a guy in my year 6 weeks ago. he said he probly would go out with me, but he doesn't feel ready to go out with someone yet. I'm sorta stuck now. I still want to go out with him, but asking him out again would be weird. I see him...

Is masturbation a sin?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - I am a christian who masterbates. I want to know whether masterbation is a sin or not. please help....

Can anyone give me some advice on teasing, please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I've got a girlfriend (I am agirl as well) And I'd like some tips on how to tease her, I'm afraid I'm a little inexperienced in that feild....

Is there anyway to have a secret relationship? all I'm worried about is her dad finding out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for 4 months now and currently we have broken up cause of her parents. We love each other so much. Is there like anyway to have a secret relationship?All i'm worried about is her dad finding out....

We never manage to have a real conversation....is he interested??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I've known this guy since I was in sophomore year of high school, and when I say known I mean we knew each other as "friendly acquaintances". We went to different high schools and I was always, and still am, the quiet and unsure girl. I knew him ...

I want to move out and have a baby with my bf...how do I go about this???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I am 15 years old, I live with my mom and 14 year old sister. I have been with my 17 year old boyfriend for six months now, and he wants me to move in with him and he and I want to have a baby. We both feel ready for this. And I know its a big resp...

How do I conquer my fears before they conquer my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - This is so similar to the way i feel. Im extremley jealous of my boyfriends ex, not to mention im the jealous type period. They were together on and off since 5th grade (currently 21). They accomplished soo much together. They went to their prom...

My breasts have been hurting since we had sex, is that a sign of pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend had sex three days ago, and he injected in me three times, today my breasts have been hurting a little but not much. Is that a sign of pregnancy? somebody please help me....

Did I do the right thing by telling on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (?) - I have a guy friend who trust me with everything also he gets in trouble a lot! One day when I got to school, I found out that some of windows had broken with a baseball bat. Well, he told me he hates the school and he did it. I couldn't handle the ...

What should I do if my family finds out that I still love the guy who broke my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - ive been dating this guy and he cheated on me, and my family knows and they hate him...but i still love him with all my heart no matter what anybody says. im not desparate or pathetic i just know who i really love. but my question is if my family ...

I'm undesided on what kind of relationship I want with this guy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - OK, so I don't know where I stand on this guy. He told me he liked me, we cuddled and got touchy at one point, but then this past weekend I pretty much gave him the idea that I wasn't really interested. Now I'm not so sure. He's like one of my guy ...

My best friend knows I love him but I'm confused about his feelings for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Well, I've been real confused lately, and i'm not sure what to do. . .usually I'm the one who gives the advice, but right now I'm at a loss. . . First off, I'm bi, I didn't know until just a few years ago, and I've only just recently accepte...

Why do I want to stay with this guy even though he cheats?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - so ok i know this is bad i mean real bad but ive dated this guy for a long time....but after our anniversary i found out he was cheating on me, and i know theres the phrase once a cheater always a cheater but i still love him alot and me and him and ...

Should my girlfriend accept all my flaws or should I change for her to prove my love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Hey there aunts and uncles of Dear Cupid. I have a sort of problem from an argument i had yesterday with my girlfriend. She said that if i really loved her i should/would want to change some aspects of my behaviour to make her happy, but i argued ...

Why would my friend ignore me completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Well, this isn't exactly someone I love. Actually, I'm not sure how I feel about him... Let me cut to the chase. I have this friend... Let's call him "Bob". Well, Bob and I went through a rough period a few months before school ended, but thing...

I'm sick of my life ever since I told people I'm gay.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Okay-This doesn't have much to do with relationships like love or anything... I just need help Ever since people found out that I was a lesbian I've felt completely left out of everything surrounding me. I feel so alone and hated. My best friend a...