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How close should I be as a friend?

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Question - (9 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 September 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This guy said he liked me.

then said he didn't. i found out it was cause of another girl.

we're still good friends.

but now he's dating the other girl.

how close should i be as as friend?

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A female reader, starismine1 United States +, writes (9 September 2008):

starismine1 agony auntDo you want to be more than a friend with him? What do you consider being a guys friend to be about? Hanging out, going to movies, parties, touching, hugging, sex? It's all very subjective, what a girl considers friendship with a guy to be. Many guys are friends with girls they have casual sex with. Most women find it difficult to do this. What matters most for you is that, whatever kind of relationship you have with anyone is one you truly want to have with them because you like them and enjoy being with them. If you do want him to be your boyfriend, a friendship while he dates someone else may be asking for heartache.

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A female reader, claireleatherdale United Kingdom +, writes (9 September 2008):

claireleatherdale agony auntdon't change ur friendship 4 this girl she either takes ur friendship with him for what it is (just friends) or she can lump it just coz she's with him now doesn't mean ur 2 change the bond u and this lad have

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