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Archived questions from: 16 September, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

What can we do about our friend who is harming herself? Should we tell?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hi, my ex - best friend has been cutting herself for about a year now, and me and my other friends don't know what to do. I've been reading stuff about telling, but were too afraid. So, please tell me anything i can do to get her the help she need...

My ex is confusing me, is she with my friend just to bother me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - The problem i have is my gf left me practically 3 years ago, she has dated other guys, but i still feel that heavy look on my back when she is around, the one where you feel someone is watching you. This isnt just lately, but even when she was in h...

I feel that now it's too late to do anything about her, or is it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - Hey there, I've really liked one of my close friends for a while now. I asked her out but her reply was she didn't want to ruin our friendship. This didn't make me go off her one bit. she is unaware of me still likeing her Recently anoth...

I'm stuck! I'm in love with two guys and I don't know what to do. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Ok. i have been with my bf for 3 yrs and we have a one yr old daughter together. at the beginning things were great but the last yr and half hasnt been good. we argue, we have little scraps and we just dont seem to be how we were. the romance has ...

I don't want to go out with him anymore, but I'm afraid he'll do something bad to himslef.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I dont know what to do about my boyfriend. He is 14 and smokes about 15 cigarettes a day. His dad is an alcholic and beats him reguarly. Every time I see him he has more bruises. He has also tried to commit suicide by taking overdoses. But him an...

What exactly does "love" mean to you?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - heya, A friend of me asked me this, and i want to get some of your opinions on it... but can you tell me...? What exactly is love? I know... kinnda a big question... but i want to see what other people think it is :) And i dont really want the d...

What are some examples of playful banter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - what is some examples of playful banter? i ask this because this girl that i like alot says the playful banter is a huge turn on. i dont want to ask her what it means because then i would sound like an idiot. please help me...

I am worried how my being overweight will affect my relationships in the future. What can I do to increase my chances?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - I have posted questions previously about how I worry about how my appearance will affect my relationships in the future. Quick reminder - I am nineteen years old, six foot dark hair blue eyes. My close female friends say I'm sweet and kind and lov...

Reluctant to be intimate with him because he had sex with another girl during our break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hello everyone. I have a situation and would really appreciate some advice. Ok well me and my bf broke up 5 months ago. 2 or 3 weeks ago we got back together. But in the time we were broken up, he had sex with another girl. I was totally upset wh...

I am really getting confused what does the look he gave me mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - hello PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!! i would really like some advice on my sutuation. theres this boy who i have a big crush.he does have a girlfreind but yesterday i saw him with her i kind treid to ignore them so i turned away and spoke to my fr...

I keep losing my erection with my gf

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - well i have a girl friend and we have been going out for 3moths and the first time we had sex i was hard but the 2 time we had sex i coulddnt get hard. for some some reason i masterbat 2 porn but only like a littil not alot i do it like 1 or 2 times ...

Are all Turkish men this jealous? He said he's the only guy I should look at. Should I talk to him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2471 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for around 2 months now with a turkish guy 4 years older. I really like him, but when we talk on the phone and he knows i have been out, he asks if i went out with boys. and when he says love you at the ...

How important is beauty/cuteness? What do you think about love at first sight? The girl I like fancies another boy because of his appearance!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - What do you think about love at first sight? Is it just like to be in love with somebody we think it's pretty, just because of the appearance? I'd like to believe so... I like a girl who likes another boy, just because she thinks he's cute... I ...

I'm bothered about all these pictures he has of another woman and some ex's, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - This gonna be as concise as possible. I found six pictures of a woman in provocative dress (lingerie, bedsheet) in different poses in my boyfriend's email address. I confronted him about it and he got mad and said that he only asked for those be...

Should I shave or not? That is the question.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I dont no what to do. I dont no wether to shave my pubes or not! I mean, if I do then how much do I shave off! I shaved some a while back, and kept it up for a few months but there were always little bits of stubble. Please help! xx...

Could this go anywhere, regardless of the age difference and distance between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Okay, so one of my cousins moved to the USA (I live in the UK), and she has a friend who is a 16 year old guy. She introduced me to him via Instant Messenger, he is really, really nice and funny. I am only 13 and I truely feel as if I am in love...

I'm sick of his behaviour and I want to break up with him, but how do I end it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has been ignoring me constantly recently, acting like hes mad at me and being either distant, or sarcastic and patronising when we do talk. Even though i still care about him, his behaviour is making me miserable every day, i'm getting ...

Techniques on how to cover blemishes by using make up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Im 17 almost 18 and really need help in the make up department.I get blemishes like every other teenager and untill i finally get rid of them i thought that i could mabye improve my confidence with make up.Problem is i don't have any idea which is ...

It seems like he might like me, but inexperienced as I am, I'm not sure. What do you say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hey. Alright, so I really like this guy in my grade, and I want to know if he likes me back. We're pretty good friends; we talk and joke around all the time. Recently he's started walking me to some of my classes, and whenever we're talking he looks ...

My girlfriend wants me to masturbate in front of her - but I don't know how.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - i'm a 14 year male and my story's alittle akword... my girlfriend asked me to masterbate im front of her, (not going into detail) and i really don't know how to masterbate. i'm pretty despirate......

I am unsure about my sexuality, how do I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - i am 17, female...and i am very confused! i have a boyfriend who i love but i cant stop looking at or thinking about girls!!! before i met him i considered myself bisexual...but i never knew for sure...i find women way more attractive than ...

This guy tries too hard to impress me. How do I tell him to chill out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

16 September 2008 (?) - I recently started dating this guy. Hes great and sweet but the problem is he seems to be trying too hard impress me. I think part of the problem is I have very strict standards for him I really like him but I wish just he relex a bit. Hes acting ...

Is it normal for my feelings to change this often?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Is it normal for me to have been in a 9 month relationship and stop liking him after 5 months but the 6th month love him and 7th hate him? Is it also normal that I can one day love someone and the next just dog them and have no remorse for what I ...

Why do I still have feelings for an old teacher, even though I know I have no chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I just transfered to a new school. I kind of like it, but it's more strict there. I'll admit, I do miss my old school at times. Mostly because I left someone who I loved there. That person was my teacher. He was 45, married, with a son who is now ...

I'm aware being on the pill is meant to 'trick' your body into thinking it's pregnant, but....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hi, Just a quick question here. Might sound silly but I just wanted to know. I'm aware being on the pill is meant to 'trick' your body into thinking its pregnant as such. Does this mean any emotions you experience whilst on the pill, you will be ...

I want to be able to trust this guy more than anything...trust that he wont hurt me...but don't know how to.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Every relationship i've had i've ruined. As soon as a relationship starts getting serious or i start feeling to much i either end it or i act like a jerk and wait for the guy to end. I did this a few monthes ago with this guy i really liked and poss...

How can I make my mum talk about masturbation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I'm 13 year old girl and I masturbate frequently. I don't know if my mum knows, I want to tell her, but I can't! alternatively, how can I make her talk to me about it, without letting her know that I masturbate?...

I know this sounds ridiculous but I want to spend the rest of my life with her after high school!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - I want to tell her I love her, I know ways to tell her, but i want it to be the right time and if I should kiss her again. Of course I will ask because that is me, but I don't want her to say yes even if she is not ready. I know this sounds ridi...

I don't want her to go with him, because I just know he's going hurt her and cheat like he did with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Ok I'll start from the begining. Ummm.I meet this girl this school year call her Tay. Tay started going with..."Jay". Tay and Jay were such a pretty couple and so affectionet. They were together maybe for about 2 weeks. And about 3 times a week ...