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Archived questions from: 11 September, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I want to give him something different, something special for his birthday next month. Any ideas please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Okay, so it's my boyfriends birthday in a months time, and its the 4th birthday i'll have been with him but i'm looking for ideas for a nice present. I'm a pretty sentimental person so have made him things every birthday, christmas and vale...

We found my best friend on a porn website, what should we do??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I honestly don't know what to do! Me and my boyfriend decided to look at some porn on the internet together to try it out and see whether it was fun or not. Whilst we were looking, we found a website for people to post pictures of themselves on it ...

Can anyone give me any tips on really good flirtng techniques??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Hey everybody out there!! I was just wondering if anyone can give me any tips on really good flirtng techniques?? What are the main things that men use as a way of flirting? And can anyone tell me if constant eye contact really means anything...

I always see this guy at school, staring and smiling at me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Theres this guy at my school who said he liked me but hes going out with a different girl. I always see him staring at me/smileing at me. What should i do.?...

I'm kinda scared of getting hurt or rejected because I haven't felt this way about a girl since my ex and I broke up .

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

11 September 2008 (M) - I'm 18 and havent dated for a long time since january when me and my ex broke up, and ever since i've been doing my own thing not giving myself time for girls. i've seen girls but it didnt really work out because i never put in time for them because ...

I like him but it seems he is trying too hard to impress me. How can I tell him to relax?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

11 September 2008 (?) - I recently started dating this guy. Hes great and sweet but the problem is he seems to be trying too hard impress me. I really like him but I wish just he relex a bit. It gots on my nerves any guy trying too hard. How can I tell him to relex?...

I've fallen for him but told him we can just be friends because he has a gf. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - okay i have a slight problem they guy i fallen for (just going on 17 im nearly 16) has got a gf, he has been one of my best friends or ages and im really close to him like more than most people but like he hs a gf, and recently he told me he liked ...

Any suggestions for clearer skin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Okay i was just wondering if anyone had any tips on getting clearer skin, iv got quite a lot of very small spots all over my face and ave been desperatly tryin to get rid of them. if anyone has any tips or knows any products that really work please ...

Date someone new or be with my ex who I know respected me and my limits?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - well a couple of weeks ago this boy i fancy who i met through see cadets asked me out we're quite good friends and we talk a fair bit alot of people think we make a cute pair. The next day my ex boyfriend told me he still loved me and wants to go ...

I'm only 13, pregnant with twins, afflicted with herpes, and I don't know who the father is. How do I tell my parents?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I just turned thirteen and I found out I am pregnant with triplets I don't know who the father is I have been sexually active with over ten men the last year. I have lied about my age because I am very developed and I don't know what to do. I also ...

I fancy the boy who gets on my bus to school, how can I start a friendship so I can build on it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - hello. ok im going to give you all the details because i really do need some advice. there is this lad who gets on my bus to school and i really like him. even though he is in the year below me. i reckon he knows my face type of thing. but i don...

I want to write a letter to his family so they will accept our relationship. Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Well, I'm from the West indies, but my boyfriend is an Indian Jatt Sikh. We are very much in love and have been for almost two years. The trouble is, his family are strict and don't know of our love just yet, but we plan to tell them next year, by ...

What do I get him for Christmas? I need ideas!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Hey!! I'm 18 years old and my boyfriend of a year [on and off] is turning 19.I know it's a little too soon to be thinking about Christmas but I really don't know what to get him.This is our first Christmas together and he told me to just ...

What could these stomach pains be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Hey was just wondering what this could mean? I have real bad stomach pain like cramping and in the lower back of my hips. Today when I was doing the dishes my stomach touched the sink just a little bit and it really hurt. I also went to sit on a ...

What are the symptoms of depression?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - How do you know if you are depressed? and how do you go about getting help? I feel that I could have mild depression but I am not sure, I used to be happy the majority of the time but now I just feel like "what's the point" and I basically just s...

Did he have sex with her and how do I get him to admit it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of four years took his cousin to the prom this year because we were "on a break" but still together. I went with one of my good friends and my boyfriend and I ended up spending most of the dance and after party together. I thought he ...

Twisted Love: he's cheated on me over 20 times!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship with the same guy for five years. We have had some amazing times and some terrible times. He has cheated on me over 20 times (4 of them having sex with other girls) I cheated on him twice (having sex with two other ...

I don't want to get to like him any more, but I don't want to stop talking to him. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

11 September 2008 (M) - Hi, Im 17 (male), soon to be 18, at college doing my a-levels, got a good part time job etc, but I havent been in love since I was 15, had a boyfriend since February or had any form of sex since April. I'm quite goodlooking but Im a warm person t...

I used to date this guy, we broke up, now he calls me a slut, which is very annoying, what should I do, is there a good verbal comeback?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Well i know this boy named evan and he used to go out with me and then he broke up with me. but now he calls me a slut and it is so annoying and i have no comebacks so what should i say to him....

My mom turned forty-eight today, and it frightened me, she is not sick or anything, but I worry that my parents are getting older, and they will die, how do I stop worrying about that and enjoy them while we are all still here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

11 September 2008 (M) - My mom turned 48 today, and it scared me. Lately I've been worrying about my parents growing old and dying. Not that they're in bad health but it always happens eventually. And it just makes me so sad to see them get older. So how can I get over ...

I'm a little unsure about how I could strike up a conversation with him (and where)-Advice please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I'm a 14 year old female and am a sophomore in high school. Despite my age, please answer seriously. I moved to a town in California about a year ago, and just moved into a house more recently. I've found that I have a *ahem* attractive neighbor, ...

Very, very awkward situation with my teacher! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - hi! I'm a 13 year old girl in desperate help!! It all started in 7th grade I had 3 teachers, as my home room teaches.. Anyways one of them is like a realy nice lady she helps me get throw anything beacause I tell her everything! And one of the other ...

I have been talking on-line to this girl and I would like to meet her, but I don't want to scare her off, how do I find out if she would agree to meet me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

11 September 2008 (M) - this girl i met through a friend, i been talking to her online a fair bit. She starts new conversations when one dies down so she enjoys talkin to me. We've only spoken for few days. I do like her, how do i find out if she would consider meetin me ...

I am bi-sexual, and my mom has told me, if she finds out that I am bi-sexual, she will disown me, it will kill me if I can't tell her the truth, what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - im bi and i dont know how to tell my parent my mom already told me that if she ever found out that im bi that she wil say im not her daoughter and it kill me that i cant im afriad what do i do...

My boyfriend cheated on me, and my family thought we broke up because of his cheating, I am still secretly still dating him, how do I keep my family from finding out about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - So i dont care what you say about me but i would like advice please.. but yeah im dating this guy and we've been dating for awhile and yeah hes cheated on my once and the family knows...but me and him are secretly dating...none of my family knows,...

I like this guy I know and want to talk to him, and maybe let him know, but I have no idea how to approach him, any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Ok, so this guy and I know I like him but I don't know how to confront him. Its awkard because we have not talked in like a really long time.( a year at the most) His friends look at me and all that. + I cant find a reason to approach him without ...

I am thirteen, and have had my period for a while now, I want to use tampons, my mother is strongly opposed to my use of them, what is wrong with tampons at my age?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Well I use tampons secretly behind my moms back. I find pads uncomfortable. I asked when I can use tampons and she tod me when you're WWWWWAAAAAAYYY older! She's afraid I'll hurt myself (im 13!) and that I'm too small to use something "big". AND ...

My ex boyfriend is telling me, six months after our break-up, that he is not over me, but I am over him, I feel guilty, what do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - My ex boyfriend is telling me 6 months after our breakup that he is not over me, but I was over him 6 months ago. I feel guilty though. What should I do?...