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Archived questions from: 1 September, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Do I face this situation now or should I just let it unfold later and face the consequences then?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5724 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - I have had a crush on my best friend D for a few years, a fact he has always accepted and appreciated as benign - he knows me well enough to understand that I am not the sort to manipulate or, for that matter, usurp. In turn, I know he is faithful ...

I had an email affair, but nothing more. Now I'm accused of cheating on him two times, which is a lie!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I've never felt so messed up in all my life. I'm so utterly confused. I've been seeing an amazing guy for 3 months. In such a short space of time, i've never cared for anyone or been so comfortable with anyone in my life. (Previous to this i was in ...

Should I tell people my step-dad touches me inappropriately?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - when i was about eight years old my step father began touching me in rude ways. i was to young to understand so i didn't tell anyone he is still doing it should i tell people and do you think they will believe me?...

How can I tell my dad I'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - i have a great feeling that im pregnant, because i have the symtoms. but i am not sure what i should do. you see im 15 turning 16 in oct. and it was my first time having sex non the less it was unprotected. i dont know how i should tell my dad. so ...

Flat chested forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Okay, I will be 16 in about a month, and I'm still almost completely flat chested. Do I still have time to grow, or is it too late?...

My boyfriend may possibly be infertile but I want a child with him. Should I be positive or negative about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend has undescended testicles which increases the risk of infertility. This really upsets me and although he's been too embarrased about it in the past, I have got him to see a specialist where he should hopefully take a sperm count. Th...

It was the first time we engaged in sexual activities together, and he began to cry. Any insight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Hello, The guy I am with now and I have been together for about four months. The other day, we were together in his home making out and touching and such (pretty much everything but actual sex) and he began to sort of cry. I was a little confused...

He's recently been in the army for 4 months and I plan to follow him in Cyprus, any advice / tips?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - hello, im 17 years old, and i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, hes recently been in the army for 4 months, we miss each other like mad and plan to spend the rest of lifes together, its all planned out, and i know that sounds silly cuming from ...

My boyfriend and my best friend deny the rumours (I was told they slept together) - now I'm hurt and don't trust them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - So about two weeks ago I was told by one of my bestfriends, that a previous rumor I heard about my boyfriend of 6 months was true. He had slept with my "bestfriend" of four years three or four times. I had confronted both of them about a month ago ...

My cat is acting weird!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - hi, my cat just suddenly turned into different behaviour. shes always following us and she never used to but then shel suddenly turn round hiss at you, growl, then start faoming and dribbling at the mouth. im worried what sort of illness it is c...

I have fallen out with all my school friends and I don't want to be looking like billy-no-mates...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - hi there. well this is a rather strange question i guess. but im going back to school this week and i have fallen out with prcatically all of my friends (most of them anyways) and i think im going to find it really hard. i will be going into yr10 ...

Little things (not vulgar) to turn him on, in and outside the bedroom?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of a year have been having sex now for a bout 4 / 5 months. I was just wondering, whats a big turn on for a guy. Is he enjoying it when after sex sometimes, he turns over does he not like it. What could make the sex more ...

We've always been good friends but he rejected my friend request!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5724 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - HI i've been known this guy all my life hes more like a big brother but we have never been that close seen each other now and then hes 21 im 18, i saw him the other night we had a quick chat and then went our sepparate ways, so then i saw his ...

We want to have sex but I am on the pill and REALLY don't trust it! I dislike condoms, too, thus?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Okay, this is so stupid.. But I've got a new boyfriend, and soon we're going to be having sex soon for the first time, and although I'm on the pill I REALLY don't trust it. (The morning after pill failed on me) I'm assuming they've got different ...

I don't understand her motives for kissing me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - im a girl and ive liked my friend whose also a girl for a while and she knows and the other night while we were both quite drunk she kissed me, and told me she liked me, we went back to hers and went to sleep together it was so sweet but the next...

Why email me to say he doesn't care if he really doesn't care? Why not just ignore me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I was wondering why my ex boyfriend.. [he broke up with me a year ago because he wasn't feeling it so much anymore, but we've been talking and flirting and stuff in school (I'm now 18, he's now 17) etc... but not really spoken to him during the s...

I'm 13 and I wish I could have sex with this boy I really liked! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Hi im 13 and i want sex really badly i dream about it but i wish it was reality. Its always with this boy that i really like. Well i say like, but what i mean is love. I have tried telling him but he blanks me. i had a passionate kiss with him in...

Wouldn't it destroy our friendship if I told my mate that I like his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - I am in love with my friends girlfriend: have been for a while, waaay before they started dating. I try and forget these feelings, but I cant. I just cant. One or two of my other friends know about this, and one of them seems to think I should t...

How can I make my flat nipples look more proper?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I'm 15 and really self concious of my nipples, or lack of. I have boobs, im a 32DD i just dont undertstand why i dont have proper nipples, theyre like flat how can i make them more like proper nipples? ...

Why am I so tired? Is it depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Hi, Lately i have been feeling so tired its not normal, all i can think about is sleep. When im awake i feel really down and dont enjoy any of the things i used to, mainly because i have no energy or no happy thoughts anymore. I went to have a b...

What can I do, if anything, to make my periods lighter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - hi, my periods a re really heavy, is there anything i can do to make them lighter? ...

He won't tell me the reason why he broke up with me, we are now friends but does he keep staring at me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - well i was previously dating a guy for 2 weeks n then he broke up with me. i still have feelings for him though, anyways,we argued alot and fought after he broke up with me and he wont tell me the reason why we broke up. i am still frustrated at ...

Consequences of smoking pot?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I'm happy with everything in my life, I love my boy heaps. We both work full time, and we smoke pot... is this affecting us in our personality? We only smoke after work......

I want to masturbate my boyfriend but what should I do with the seminal fluid?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - i want to jerk my boyfriend off but what do you do with all the cum...

Would it be OK to rent a hotel room for my partner on both these special occasions? Any other ideas to surprise him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - hey guys just wondering if you could give me a few ideas on what to do... my partners been away for some time now on a travelling trip and is due to come back sat... so on that i note im deciding to do something special... thus i am planning to b...

I'm in love & I'm pregnant, but his parents don't agree... PLEASE HELP!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I'm very young and am having a baby with my boyfriend (who is the same age as me). As anyone expects, his parents have reacted badly. But now it has come to an extreme. First his parents book him anger management behind his back, then they took awa...

How can I get him in the mood after a long hard day at work ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - My Boyfriend of 2 yrs ... Is constantly tired or sore from work to treat me like he used to and im afraid that if i confront him he will leave me or we will have an argument. and one of thoes people that hate arguing as i was brought up with ...

My girlfriend ignores me for long hours. Is she playing with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - I am getting stressed with my current relationship. She distant herself from me and come back close. After awhile, she distant herself again. It happened so many times. When she does that, she went missing the whole day. Not picking up phone ...

My sister is dating someone who will clearly use her and she doesn't want to listen to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - Hello, my sister (who's just turned 16) has just started going out with a lad who is 24. This lad has no real interest in my sister and is clearly trying to get into her pants. He has a history of going out with many girls and having sex with them ...

How can I bring his interest back again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - im 16 n m boyfrnd is 17..we bth love each other n has a very gud understnind we hav been in relationshp snce 5 mnths..in starting he gve a lots of importnce bt nw its getting reduce..m worried abt it...i knw he dosnt hav dat much time n manges to ...

Why my friends can talk to girls but not me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - hello got 1 more question how come when i talk to girls i get really nerves and scared and like if i ask them something they will take the piss and plus most of my mates can talk to girls really easily...

Is it jealousy that is clouding my judgment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - Hi. Last January I started talking to this girl in my math class. We started to get really close and we had a sort of unofficial relationship. But we talked almost every night for months. We got really really close and she eventually was comfortable ...

Is it me or is this getting worse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - Is it me, or is she getting worse? I'm the 15 year old boy who wrote a post recently about his girlfriend's behavior. To read the past question, please click the link at the end of this post. Yesterday we had a fight, again. First we were joki...

How can I ask this girl out who seems more interested on guys that are the opposite of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - ok the same girl that i creeped out by the exaggerated attention, i wanna make a move on her but shes into the more skinny popular guys, and she sees me as a nice and funny guy, soo is there anyway for me to land her no matter how big i am and how ...

What do you do when you love someone who doesn't love you back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - okay i having a REAL hard time but can anyone PLEASE help....here goes. what do you do when you love someone that 1-you cant have 2-is not your age 3-doesnt love you back yet,you feel like they are lying you feel as if hes/shes yours and if you...

He's my best friend and I'm in love with him, but it seems that we will never be together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Well i like this guy sooo much and he knows that i do but he dosent have the same feelings as i do and it kinda hurts when he tells me about his gf's cause i know that we will never be together but he is my best friend he is like my personal i guess ...

How can I convince people that my 25 year old boyfriend is not wrong for me? I'm only 14

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - ok this is hard...im a 14 year old girl...and i have a 25 year old boyfriend...i know he loves me very much...we have promised eachother that we will wait for sex till im 18..and till then we act like normal people...except till we talk on the ...

My best friend is mad at me and I don't know how to apologize to her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - okay I have a friend, who i use to be BEST FRIENDS with, i loved her SOOOOOO much, and i still know EVERYTHING about her, its just that, she was normally more popular than me. Then after a bit, she got REALLY REALLY mad at me. And One of MY OTHER ...

Is it wrong to love your step-sister?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - So since we all went out as a family me and her keep talking on msn frequency and i enjoy the time with her i get shy when i'm up her house and now she's gone on holiday for two weeks it seems the two weeks are taking forever and I really miss her ...

I like this girl but I think she would be more interested in my mates because they look better than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - well there is this girl i fell in love with but now ther is like tow ov my best m8's that like her but they look a lot better then me and she might not like me no more...

I didn't want to have sex with him and he went ballistic!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Please help me im so heart broken. Should i stay or not? We went to the museum today everything was so fun.. When then he said lets go to (his friends names house) and he wanted to have sex but his friend was home. So i didnt want to of cours...

I had unprotected sex and my period came but it was very light. Does this mean pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I had unsafe sex on the 19. i had light spotting 6 days after. it was light brown. i have all of the pregnacy signs. i was going to buy a test but today i started bleeding. not alot and its light brown. i'm a week late. is this light bleeding my ...

I'm a virgin and I' mnot sure I'll be "enough" for my experienced girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - hello i have question i am with this girl but she has had sex but i anit im only 15 but i anit had sex yet, but i recon i will have sex with her pretty soon and i am very scared about and there is 3 reasons why and that is my penis size and that is ...

I like this girl, but all my friends hate her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - hello everyone, me and this girl has been getting long really well and she just asked me out, and i said i tell you tomorrow. but the girl that i have falling in love with is a girl how most of my mates dont like, but i really do love her and if i ...

How can I keep on flirting with him without getting too physical?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - So i have compleated my fiesr week of college and their is an older guy who is very intrested in me. We have a lot in common and he is absoultly perfect. We tease eachother a lot (verbaly and physicaly). I was wondering if anyone knows anything i ...