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Archived questions from: 17 September, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

My boyfriend spends more time on Runescape than he does with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Hey,, Since May 16, 2008 (Friday) I've got a boyfriend W.,, I really love him,, and he loved me too.. But now there's a boy V. and he's 12 years old and he makes our relationship bad and runescape too.. W. is 15 and I'm 16 before you didn't know....

I'm unsure about losing my virginity. I love my boyfriend, but I promised myself I would wait until marriage.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 month and 15 days (( Yes, I counted the days, shoot me )) and we've been talking about sex latley. We played the nervous game one time and he was suppose to go in my pants, but he went in my underwear by ...

I have a problem concentrating, and I am depressed,because of a girl I like, my friends have told me to get over her, but I can't seem too, what do I do to stop this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - Well i have a problem with a girl in my year (9) and ive liked her for 2 years and im starting to get pretty peed off with everyone because they say get over her and i cant everyday its 'get over her' i cant understand everyones hate for it but she ...

So depressed and confused over the two boys in my life...what can I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend split up with me the other day and then i got with this other lad J, and i was happy at first, but now im not too sure. Lately i have been feeling really depressed and sad and emotional and have lately been crying much more than i used ...

How can we make our first time about showing our love and not just about sex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 15. We met when he was 8 and I was 9 at school. We hit it off at school and started doing group things together and then eating lunch together. A year later his parents were looking to move to a new neighborhood. After ...

Do you think this is just my imagination or do you think he's attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Hi, my friend introduced me to a friend of hers called Tom and he's quite a lot older than me. i put out my hand for him to shake and he gently shook my hand and didn't stop looking me in the eyes. he held on to my hand whilst i talked to him and ...

Do I get back with my ex lover, as I always do, or do I stay with my new lover?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - I have a girlfriend who ive been with for over 2-3 months. its good im happy. she made me straighter than i was before. but now my ex-girlfriend wants me back. she a very attractive and she wants to be with me again like it use to be. i might ev...

I have just started college and am working at the time so I am constantly tired and feel depressed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - hey im really depressed in life at the moment i have just started college and am working so i am constantly tired. my boyfriend has just gone back to uni and i wont be seeing him in a while. also his best mate commented his facebook a coup...

My boyfriend enjoys getting period blood over him, is this normal?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are both 16. Weve been going out for seven months and we both lost our virginty to each other around 4 months ago. I was just wondering if this is normal that my boyfriend likes to finger me whilst im on my period ( i only ever...

Should I take some more time and analyze my situation for my kid's sake before I move in with my fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I'm 33 with two kids. I've recently become engaged. My Fiance has a daughter of his own and wants us to move in together. We really don't have any big issues, we don't argue that much and when we do, he always tells me 'lets talk about it and not ...

Is it normal for my breasts to be itching me so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I'm a teenage girl of 14 and I was wondering if it was normal to have my tits itchy... I never had sexual relations and I don't know why I've got this problem. Sometimes it's really itchy and I get some blotches. I use some cream and it makes me f...

What's wrong with my dad? He keeps forgetting things and I'm really worried about him, please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

17 September 2008 (?) - My dad has trouble remembering things. For instance, I'm supposed to get him up at 5:30am Tues-Fri....But when i got him up today, he said he'd be upstairs in a minute. Ok, so i waited..he never came up. When i got back from my taekwondo class, he s...

My boyfriend seems to have changed a lot, and not in a good way. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Hello :) erm well i'm really worried about my boyfriend. We've been going out for 10 months but he seems to be changing a lot and NOT in a good way :( The thing is, since he started college he has been very quiet with me, very sarcastic and seem...

What can I start a conversation about, just to get talking to this girl I really like?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - well basicallyy theres a girl at school that i like but we don't really know eachother, and i'm kinda falling for her :/ and really dont know why. but shes always with her friends so i cant go make conversation with just her. Also she is in the ...

How can I get my teacher fired as she is real nasty to the students?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Sorry this isnt a relationship question but i really need advice. This is a long story that goes over two years so ill cut it short. Well i am at a course for literacy numeracy and helping to get into work. It was going great and i got heaps of ...

I'm making it obvious....but does my shy guy like me back??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Hope you can help me on this situation! I started college about 2 weeks ago, and instantly found myself liking this guy in one of my classes. I never talked to him at first as i was too shy to do so, but recently i've began to talk to him - I tend t...

It's very hard for me to see my ex every day (although we are both dating someone else) and know that we can't be together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - hey,i have a problem..i had a relationship that lasted about 3 months and it was then that i fell like falling in love for the first time in my life..we even had sex together because we loved each other..but unfortunately we broke up a couple of ...

I'm still in love with my boyfriend, and I believe he's in love with me but the distance that is growing between us recently, drives me closer to another boy. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for more than a year now, and I really believe we are in love. However, lately, he has been neglecting to call me much and when he does, he's usually watching TV or doing something online and barely pays attention. So a ...

Does love involve belonging to your partner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I would like an opinion here... Would you say that love involves belonging to someone else? In soul/heart? In body?...

What to do about my lying boyfriend? He blamed it on me that he created a dating account! Do I believe him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - right so i'l try and make this short, basically me and my boyfriend nearly split up about 2 weeks ago and it was his choice he was saying he doesn't know wether he wants me or loves me anymore and we came to a decision that we were going to give it ...

Who should I focus on trying to start a relationship with? I've fallen for my guy friend who is straight...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - First off, i just figured out i'm bi. I have fallen for my guy friend who's straight but also very "friendly" to me. Such as lots of hugs, clinging to each other during scary movies etc. I think it's best to keep it quiet between us. In addi...

Too embarassed to buy a std test thinking about stealing one next time I'm in the store!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - i think i might have a disease. i wont go to the doctor but somethings also make me believe i dont have one ill have a brownish color string stuff come out of me like when im fingering myself.. the usualy white stuff comes out along with a little ...

I know everyone is telling me get to know him before I do anything but I don't know. please help me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Im a bisexual girl and i kinda dated this girl once a little over a year ago but i broke up with her because i was not over my first girl friend to this day im still not but im moving on from her So... im kinda but not officially dating a girl...

Reluctant to let him see me naked as I feel too fat!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - ok i am 18 year old and i am 5'2 i wieght 140 ok the problem is that my boyfriend what us to have sex but we havent because of me. i feel too fat and i dont want him to see me naked because i think i might crouse him out what do i do i know am ...

I have lost interest in my current girlfriend, and I think about my ex-girlfriend, although it's been two years, since we broke up, what do I do at this point?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - i think i lost interst in my current girlfriend and i still yhink about my ex alot although it as been almost 2 years since i lost her...

She is my first girlfriend, and I think I love her, but am not sure, as she annoys me sometimes, not sure I want to break up either or hurt her, please help me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - So I have this girlfriend of about 6 months, she's my first girlfriend (I'm 17 she's 18), and it wasn't love at first sight, I just wanted a short relationship cause she left for college (in Europe) about 5 months in. But as we got further I started ...

My ex-boyfriend and I agreed to repair our relationship, but he got angry and won't talk to me.after he broke a date,and I got uposet with him, I saw him, and he wouldn't even speak, why is he reacting this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I are in the process of rebuilding our once really close friendship and had agreed to see each other Thursday. He cancelled on me Thursday and I got upset because I had rearranged my schedule around for him. So we stopped speak...

My brother and I got along fine, until he started dating this very rude girl, she and I fight, and my brrother and I no longer have a good relationship, how can I repair the relationship with my brother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (?) - My brother is daing this girl that hates my guts (we got in a few cat fights) and has no respect for me. She treats everyone like crap (cluding him). He treats her like gold. Before they started dating, me and my brother never fight but we arg...

My boyfriend texts another girl while he is out with me, I have told him it bothers me, but he won't stop, is he cheating on me or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend says he loves me still and wont break up with me and when i hang out with him or talk to him on the phone he keeps txting this one girl and when i tell him it brothers me he doesnt listen to me.... i dont know if he is doing something ...

I constanly think about my boyfriend of about a year, I want to be with him, wonder if he is thinking about me, how can I reduce this constant longing to be in his presence, I can't focus on school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - i've been dating my boyfriend for a year at the end of this month.. and we've been through SO much over the last year and we manage to get through any problems we have.. but i feel like he's contantly on my mind.. i cant focus on school, or when im ...

She talks to a bunch of guy friends, and even if I know it's innocent, I still can't handle it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - hey everyone. I am having serious relationship problems. I have been with my gf for ten months now and the paranoia that is with me is really taking a toll. She talks to a bunch of guy friends, and even if i know its innocent, i still can't hand...

My boyfriend and I have sex, without using protection, or birth control pills, what else can I do to avoid getting pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - hi, my boyfriend and I have been having sex for a year and a half and have never used a condom and I am not on birth control. I feel like we are playing with fire and that it is only a matter of time before I get pregnant, but then again maybe I ...

I want to return the favor of having oral sex, with my boyfriend, what tips can you give me, and does pubic hair turn guys off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Alright. So I've been with my first boyfriend for more than a year and I truely believe we are in love. For remarkable respect for my personal values and both of our readiness, we didn't get physical until the past few months. Lately, I've been ...

The stretch marks and hair on my body, make me not want to have sex with my boyfriend, for fear he will be turned off, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - So There Is This Guy We Have Been Off And On Since The Fourth Grade I Love Him Very Much We Have Not Been Together For Like Two Months We Text A Lot And He Always Tells Me He Wants To Have Sex With Me And Im A Virgin But Its Like I Have Stretch ...

I really like this guy, and I want him to meet my father, so that we can see each other more, how do I approach my father about the two of them meeting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - (: So.. I Have This Boyfriend and + He's Really Perfect. Our relationship is going really good. Very deep and Smooth and We are sure we love each other. He's not like other guys and i definetley can tell. AS far as im concerned he would meet ...

Why would he ask for my e-mail if he wasn't interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - OK heres my story and i hope someone can honestly shine some lights on it. Im in school and theres a guy i like and since day one we have been flirting back and forth. Some minor touching and getting close. Lastweek he asks for my msn so i give it ...

I don't know what to talk about with my boyfriend. What do I say to keep it interesting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and me have been goin out for about four weeks now i think and when we end up talking/txting i dont know what to say or talk about except "what are you doing?" or "what are you doing for the rest of the day/tomorrow?" he works ...

I've told myself over and over again it's over, time to move on, but obviously nothing seems to work! Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Hiya, I'm in need of a tad bit of advice. I'm fourteen, freshmen in high school, and I just cannot get over my ex. We dated from March of 2006 to October of 2007, a little over a year and a half. I was the one who broke up with him in October ...

I know this can escalate to something else...something terrible, but I like it, I mean I really like it. What would you do in this predicament?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I met this guy and now I'm staying with him. He's a bit older than me and he's very nice. I've known him for a year or two now, we only knew each other for about two weeks before I moved in with him. I thought he was the nicest guy. He showered me ...

Is it true you can get pregnant if a guy gets too close to you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I've missed my period, but i've missed it before i don't know why, but i wasnt pregnant cause i didnt have sex. But now im worried because i've heard that u can get pregnant if a guys gets close 2 u, if he touches u, and thats what happened, and now ...