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writes:Am 22years old my boyfriend iz twice my age he iz 48 despite differents of ages I love him regardleSs and we been living together for about ayear now but what worries me is that he doesn't believe if I love him and when him travels he doesn't call me unless I taxt him and sometime he replys short massage am confused and there thing is his ex she calls him even she is married to other guy bt they still contact and that's even making more sad, what should I do?
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reader, falishia +, writes (29 May 2011):
falishia is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanx guyz
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (28 May 2011):
 the age gap is not the concern here. the issue is that he does not have enough self-esteem to know you love him and that he is not communicating with you enough for your needs when he travels.
IF he travels frequently you will need to discuss this with him and let him know what YOU need from him. Come up with a compromise.
as for his being friends with his ex... I"m friendly with my ex but that does not mean I want him back... both my ex and I have current partners that we love very much but it does not negate that we care about each other too.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 May 2011):
 Do you trust your boyfriend? Age shouldnt matter here at all, it should be all about the way he treats you. Does he travel a lot? Maybe he is just not good at remembering to phone. I'm not sure there could be millions of reasons why he doesnt keep in contact as much as you would like him to but you need to talk to him about this nobody else can answer but him. Talk to him and ask him why he doesnt make more of an effort and tell him how it makes you feel.
As for him still being in contact with his ex, do you feel that there might still be feelings between the both of them? It is possible that they are just pure platonic friends who like to keep in contact, again talk to him about it and ask him why he feels the need to keep in contact with his ex. See what he says. Hunny if you do not trust him and he is not making you happy well then you should not be with him.
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