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Archived questions from: 18 January, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My beautiful little dog just died and I feel lost

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

18 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, My little dog died last January 9th and I feel terrible, guilty and extremely lost. I really need some help because I feel terrible and I don't know how I am going to get over this situation. I try to rescue stray dogs to then find them a happy home and I have tried t... (1218 words)

Condoms under his bed ! Do I believe his explanation? Am I over-reacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

18 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I would really like some help ihave wrote on here before but would appreciate some more advice. Been with my boyfriend for 3 years I love him to pieces. But about 6 monthd ago we went to his mums house when his brother came out with, ''oh do you remember when we... (244 words)

Should I go to the party?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

18 January 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - There's this guy I like. I suspect he might feels the same. We make eye contact every day in school, we say hello to each other, but we haven't spoken yet. Next Friday there's gonna be a party at school, and today he invited me at Facebook (he's not the one who created the ... (113 words)

I'd like to stay friends but I know that'd be unwise currently.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

18 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Should you tell your ex you're going no contact, or should you just disappear? My ex and I broke up after almost 1 yr. We talked daily for about a month afterwards. Then he invited me to see him for some talk and possibly sex. I turned him down. When I did that, he did a ... (147 words)

I went to club to just have a good time, still guys look at me wrongly.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

18 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to a nightclub last night. I had a really awesome time with my girl friends. But all of a sudden our enjoyment got lessend due to guys coming and approching us. The guy who approched me took me to his circle of friends and it was three guys and one girl. I felt saf... (395 words)

Alternative to engagement rings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

18 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, so I have been with my boyfriend for some years now and we have talked about marriage. He has already asked me if I would like to marry him (he's asked several times). I said yes each time except once (as a joke because he already knows the answer). Now my ... (236 words)

Is my boyfriend pretending to be single again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

18 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My long distance boyfriend got really distant for weeks until lately, we have talked about it and everything is back to normal. However, few things changed. He doesn't post anything about us on instagram like he used to, he just posts random things and he even posted a pic of a ... (267 words)

Should I give those 3 or 4 girls, who each hurt me, a second chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

18 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, i would love to hear opinions from you all. Suppose, all the girls(3 or 4 girls) i fell in love in different stage of my life pretended to love me, when they actually used me to get their ego boost, and hurt me, and finally push me away? That's how it feels . ... (188 words)

How can I be COOL when starting a new relationship? I think I act too eager at the start, and that results in problems

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

18 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there, I need help regarding a pattern I have seen while I'm dating anyone really. I just get attached very quickly and too deeply to the point where I'm waiting for their texts, meeting them, calls and thinking about how to please them in general. I am not desp... (285 words)

Is it worth trying again or should I just let my head rule my heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

18 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really confused right and now and need some advice please! So background : I was with my ex for 5 months when he asked me to move in with him. I know it was too soon but I was stupid and said yes. We lived together happily for over a year, and I then found out I was... (417 words)

Why couldn't we stay friends? LDR break-up. He says the trust was broken.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

18 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. I just need to understand something from an outsiders perspective. So I met a guy before Christmas online and we got on great. Only thing was he lived over 100 miles away and I did wonder if this could be a problem. However, I went with the flow and continued ch... (670 words)

My b/f wants to try anal sex, but I don't think I'm comfortable with it. How common is it for people to try anal sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

18 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm wondering what everyone thinks of anal sex. I'm 21 my b/f is 23 and we've been together roughly 2 years. He's the only guy I've ever been with and we have been sexually active for a few months now. He's recently told me about wanting to try anal sex and asked how I felt... (161 words)

Loyalty to my friend is stopping me. I can't ask her out, because what kind of a friend would I be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

18 January 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - I like this girl in my friend circle and I'm somewhat sure she likes me back. The big problem is that one of my close friends fell for her pretty hard a while back, going as far as to say the whole "never felt this way about anyone like this before." He's the type of guy ... (189 words)

I worry I might ruin it if I tell her how I feel.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

18 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - So we went on 3 dates already Each one we had fun conversations over food She's pretty open and wild as I am I really like her and I'm really serious about being with She did mention how she wants to take it slow.. And not rush into anything She also said how guys fall f... (222 words)

I am pregnant, fearful and uneasy with my LDR engagement. I need an intervention.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

18 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I act, communicate or make things better in my LDR relationship without looking like a jealous, insecured and weak woman? I am currently engaged to my LDR boyfriend and we just found out I am expecting a child on NewYears. I may just be a tad emotional because of my pr... (452 words)

Ohhhh, my cousin, I think I love your wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

18 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - hi , am someone who have a big problem in his life ...i think i love my cousin wife and she stair att me all the time ...i am really confused when i see her looking at me and iam worried that her husband think a bad idea about us ... i think about this situation from the date ... (134 words)

What do I do about the way he acts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

18 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Could anybody offer some advice here, I'm going crazy keeping my feelings locked up!!! I am dating a guy that blows hot and cold, one minuet he's calling me sweet cheeks and telling me how amazing he thinks I am, then barley speaking to me or being very vague. Everything is on ... (213 words)

I am sure my Mom was just a bit tipsy but this creeped me out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

18 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I m a 23 year old guy. Yesterday I asked my friend Jeremy (also 23) to sleep over my house for the whole weekend. Around 10 my mom and her best friend were sitting at the kitchen counter drinking some wine when Jeremy came over. This was the first time he was meeting my mom ... (219 words)

I know he has a girlfriend but it doesn't stop me hoping!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

18 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So I there is a guy at work that I really like! I don't know what to do because he has a girlfriend so I know there is no chance we can't be together but that doesn't stop me hoping all the time. We spend a lot of time together and I have been through a lot in the past few ... (204 words)