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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He has 4 kids by different women! How do I ask him about this? How to continue to love someone with so many children?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) age 41-50 - Dear cupid. Im 35 years old with no kids and never been married. Just met a guy i love so much, i went into his facebook account just to find out about before i can be serious about our relationship. To my suprise he has 4 kids with different woman and it seem the other two ... (156 words)

Is my girlfriend out of line in her comments about mental illness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

19 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend 2 and a half years and honestly some of the things she does and says take the absolute biscuit. Yesterday we were speaking about mental illness, I have confided in her before and gotten the same reaction, in my current state the doctor has diagn... (364 words)

We started to rekindle, but he can't let go of the past!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

19 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Ran into my bf the week of new year's. We instantly felt the connection again and we started talking and went out a couple of times. We live in different states now so it's a little complicated. We decided to try to see each other again and keep the conversation. When I ... (557 words)

My boyfriend misses his kids -- what can I do to help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

19 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I've been wit my boyfriend believe we are soulmates. He has 3 kids from his previous partner. His youngest is 5 months old. His ex partner got pregnant just wen they decided to end their relationship. So far me and him have been doing good. I accept his life as it was ... (206 words)

He talks a lot but never does what he says he will! I have to do all the planning.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

19 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I am quite a bit distraught about my husband. We are married for 6 month, were dating for 2 years and then 1 year after proposal. He is a good man, good natured, generally happy. What I worry about is several of his qualities that started to really worry me. He does things... (387 words)

Am I reading too much into his slow responses?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

19 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi thanks for reading. I recently went on pof and have started texting this guy for about s a week, but for past few days it takes him ages to reply. ( like 4 hours) But when he does they are nice messages and I reading too much into it or is he getting bored of me already ... (63 words)

What is "smothering" and how do you not do it in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

19 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there My question is divided into 4 parts. I was wondering what actually is smothering your partner? Why it is bad and how to differentiate between smothering and being available for her? Also, I understand that still most women wait on guys to contact them/be... (156 words)

Will someone please help me? I feel the worst I've ever felt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

19 January 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - I became good friends with a boy a year ago and then we started behaving as a couple, we held hands kissed and cuddled we talked all the time. I really really loved him. A lot . New years day he slept with another girl. I found out from our mutual friends. I was heartbroken and ... (162 words)

He's been discussing our sex life with his friends and co-workers! Do I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

19 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I just found out that the guy I'm seeing has been telling everybody about our sex lives. I understand him telling his friends, but he has told his work colleagues as well. This makes me uncomfortable as he is my first sexual partner and it was a big step for me. Apparently he ... (110 words)

How do I pick myself up? I've been through a lot and am facing an operation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

19 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there I have only posted in here once before. But I need help again as i don't know what to do. My last post related to my ex husband and me leaving him. Well I did eventually do that, but now I want him back.....WHAT you must be thinking. I know I know, I am just as con... (504 words)

Is it okay to remove myself and "give her up" as a close friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

19 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm in the situation where I've told one of my good friends that I don't want to see her for a while... The story goes like this: I was good friends with her in high school but she did these little things like made out with a guy I was interested in and I didn't say ... (727 words)

Ready to date but never get asked!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

19 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 23 and have never been asked out. I'm smart, go to uni and actively participate in student organisations as well as take part in social work. I love having good discussions and always take genuine interest in listening to the person I'm talking to. I'm petite and I consta... (394 words)

My violent sexual fantasies bother me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3258 days ago

19 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - [MOD NOTE: OP's title] I have a sort of embarassing problem. Ever since I started discovering sex I tend to have extremely violent fantasies of me dominating men. It's always random, anonymous people, I can't imagine anyone I know there. It's magnetic. When I get inspired... (142 words)

Do I deserve his crazy behavior towards me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

19 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I've just broken up with my boyfriend, again! I desperately want to know if my behaviour is the problem because everything always seems to end up being my fault and I have to apologise. I was seeing him for just over two years and it's been very volatile. One massive ar... (692 words)

Do you think this guy is interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3384 days ago

19 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I would talk everyday. I was introduced to his friends, family. His mother apparently knew about me the first day we met. One of his friends told me that he was happy he got my number. He would ask to see me most weekends, invite me events. He would show affection ... (407 words)

Should I be worried about his change in behavior?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

19 January 2015 (F)

age - My boyfriend of two years has been somewhat distant on and off for the last month, but for the most part things have been okay. We are somewhat long distance, we live 40 miles apart. We just returned on Tuesday from a group trip for two weeks. He called me Wednesday night ... (292 words)

My ex of 3 years has replaced me within 6 weeks

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

19 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - After 3 years of being with my boyfriend from age 16-19 he told me suddenly that he doesn't love me as much as he used to and ended the relationship, he said he wanted to stay friends but I said I would rather not as it would play with my emotions too much. I can't lie it... (176 words)

Can my girlfriend overcome her troubled past enough for me to learn to trust her again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

19 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - To give a quick run down on the situation, my girlfriend of now over 6 years and I have been through some horrible times. I will preface this by apologizing for the length of this, there was a lot to say! Firstly let me give you the run down on my girlfriend. She grew ... (1157 words)

My in-laws are difficult to live with

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 3242 days ago

19 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been living with my in laws because of financial reasons. My mother in law put heaps of pressure on us despite being in a bad financial position. I had lost my job and got no redundancy. But she said don't worry about it. Then didn't help. Yet she ALWAYS goes out and buys ... (86 words)

Are we obliged to inform friends when our plans change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

19 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend told me that he just wants to be friends, and I agreed. Last week, I told him that I would stop by after my weekly club meeting. He said great, see ya soon. The meeting was longer than I thought, but once it was over I offered to still stop by. He said he was busy... (165 words)

He seems iffy about us and I suspect he has a crush on an ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3384 days ago

19 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Doctor Cupid, So me and my boyfriend aren't majorly serious yet but he never compliments me unless i hint at it. I really like him but he seems to be iffy on us. I said i love you to him once and he never responded. I said something to him about it and he just shrugged... (127 words)