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Archived questions from: 13 January, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My girlfriend proposed me a threesome. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

13 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend (I'm 23 and she's 20) have been together for over two years. We're serious, Things are wonderful between us two, we really love each other, and we're living together since a couple of weeks ago. The other day we were talking about fantasies and she told me ... (246 words)

Two weeks in of texting and phone calls!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

13 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Just out of curiosity Guys I have been talking to a girl over the phone and online for two weeks. After around day 4 I start getting messages saying "So have u thought abt me much" at least three to four times a day. I'm just wondering is this something to be careful ... (77 words)

I feel like I'm losing a friend. So should I just let it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

13 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with my best friend for almost 2 years now. We met via PSN (PlayStation Network) and met in person this past November in Washington, D.C when I was visiting family. He's the type of friend that I could always go to when I need someone to talk to and pour my ... (313 words)

Should I try my luck with this guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3382 days ago

13 January 2015 (?) age 41-50 - I suspect that my colleague is gay. I have worked with my colleague for several years and he has never mensioned or commented about being in a relationship or a women. He has recently mentioned he has a new partner. His sexuality is his business and to honest doesn't bother me ... (281 words)

Do I give it, and him, another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

13 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! ... I've found myself to be in a bit of a predicament and I'm hoping someone can help me out. This is going to be a long one but I'll try and shorten it as much as I'm able .... Okay, I'm a 27 year old woman. I was with my ex parter for a little over four an... (642 words)

I know he isn't treating me the best right how, but I need some input to understand whether I should give up or give it another chance.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

13 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently been dating this guy from work. I know he isn't treating me the best right how, but I need some input to understand whether I should give up or give it another chance. Here are the details: -We were friends for a year before dating. -He later told me he had ... (446 words)

Should I be paying towards his mortgage or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

13 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey all So ive been with my boyfriend over 3 years and weve finally agreed its time to move in together. We have our wedding planned for 2016 and it just feels like now is the right time. He owns his own house and i rent a flat so it makes sense for me to move in with him... (202 words)

Are most people judgmental?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

13 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I expected that people in the working world etc. would be more mature but they aren't. A lot of adults are so petty (both genders) and gossip about/say stupid things like "that client looks old" or "that co-worker is weird" or "Spanish people look like wrinkled prunes ... (209 words)

Her lack of sexual desire has me wondering if I should break up with her.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

13 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - So Ive been with this girl for over 2 years now and nearly everything is great with her. We moved in together 6 months ago and we still get on really well and I love her very much the problem is her lackof sexual desire. She has admitted she no longer cares about us having sex. ... (165 words)

My boyfriend has shut me out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

13 January 2015 (F)

age - My bf has been sleeping in the spare room for a few days and he's shutting me out ,I feel so alone ,he is dealing with a berivement his uncle died ,we live far away from his family and friends and I know he wants to be there am I being selfish I'm writing withe tears in my eyes ... (59 words)

I'd love a second child but my partner isn't interested in more children.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

13 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my partner 10 years he is 18 years older than me, I'm 30 years old. My partner has 2 children from a previous marriage and we have 1 child together.When we met my partner wanted more children and agreed it was definitely something that would happen for us, we had ... (109 words)

Can a single man genuinely love and accept a woman who has children?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

13 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in the process of reconsidering my marriage due to a lot of mental abuse. I have told my husband about this. A few months ago I made an acquaintance with a man and he knew I was married and have 2 children. The fact that I have children did not bother him one bit! I was ... (180 words)

Nine years dating and still no marriage!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

13 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 9 years now, he is 42 years old and I am 27. We have been discussing the issue of marriage for quite a long time now. He was married before and has two boys from his previous marriage. One is 21 and the other one is 17. He says that ... (182 words)

I need to sneak out, just this once, to go to the movies with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

13 January 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone :) So I've been having exams and been super busy.. And my boyfriend asked if I could go out for a movie date with him after our exams end. And here's the issue : I don't know how to not let my parents find out. Truth is I told my parents that I liked this boy and ... (309 words)

Nine year affair and the woman I love decides to have another child with her husband.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

13 January 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a married man with 2 kids who fell in love with a married woman 9 years ago. She was in a "loveless" marriage with 1 child and I was getting bored in mine. She recently "broke" it off with me without any explanation a few months ago and would't tell me why. I tried to find ... (543 words)

Wife wants me to sleep with another girl?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

13 January 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - The other day my wife and me were having an argument about me being extra comfortable with other girls. I'm just friendly and never over friendly with them but she feels otherwise. During this argument she tells me that 'she would really like me to sleep with some other girls ... (100 words)

He's great except that he can't follow through in the bedroom

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

13 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I've started seeing someone that I like a lot. he is a little older than me, I'm 38 and he is 47. For the most part things are going well. We communicate easily, laugh a lot together. the kissing and cuddling are great. we do have a problem though, when it comes to having s... (129 words)

When is it OK to have sex with your ex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

13 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - When is it ok to have sex with your ex? I (25/f) dumped my ex (30/m) 6 weeks ago. He' s recently offered me a plane ticket to see him to catch up, check in on each other, and have a last time go in bed. Initially we were both excited, as I'd already felt moved on by then. We've ... (107 words)

The sex just isn't as good as I know it can be

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3383 days ago

13 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend seem to have a small problem in the bedroom. Things work completely different with him than what I have experienced. I have never even heard of a guy who just dosen't need any "refractory period" most of the time, for example. The main point, I have th... (250 words)