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Archived questions from: 21 January, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is depression forcing me to break up an already rocky relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

21 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I can barely be civil to my so-called bf. as the days pass, it just gets worst and worst since he stays nonchalant and tries to joke with me. Not once has he asked if I'm okay or what's on my mind. I tried to tell him what was wrong and he cut me off and steered the ... (313 words)

How do you deal with an adult son that disrespects his father?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

21 January 2015 (F)

age - I'm engaged to a man that his little contact with his son. His son is now engaged to a wonderful girl and is getting married. They are being frugal about their wedding plans so they can go on a honeymoon and save for a house, which we think is great. There is not much ... (568 words)

I have a problem with excessive jealousy and I want to stop!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3381 days ago

21 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 22. He is the best boyfriend I've ever had and my family loves him and thinks so, too. I'm his first girlfriend. He treats me so well that I never have any doubts that he loves me. I love him very much and we're each other's best friends. All the same... (567 words)

His communication makes me wonder if it's worth carrying on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

21 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I have been seeing a guy for about 5months. We see eachother usually once every week and occasionally more. Things have been going extremely slowly but in a nice way. We hug and kiss and generally enjoy eachothers company, we exchanged Christmas presents etc. I ... (246 words)

If my boyfriend fantasizes about big girls, why does he want me to be fit and in shape??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

21 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is into big girls sexually. Big blobs and bums and pretty faces, chubby girls. He watches porn of this variety and has told me it's a thing he has. Said he had sex with a fat girl once and didn't enjoy it at all. So why still the fantasy??? He encourages m... (94 words)

Where do I find the strength to support my girlfriend through her life-altering operation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3381 days ago

21 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am needing advice and thoughts on a situation with my partner and I. I am a gay woman in a serious relationship. My partner and I have a wonderful relationship where we are both extremely happy together, have no issues with trust, and are actively planning a future ... (726 words)

My fiancé is not calling or texting. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

21 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone my is helen i live in nigeria am having a problem with my relationship. my guy is based in jos and I am based in kaduna. things where ok until he got a mission,and went and recently he came for break and everything move well until now he has gone back he dnt call ... (98 words)

How do I calm down and stop being so anxious before I push him away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

21 January 2015 (?) age 30-35 - OK I am struggling at the moment, I've met such a great guy and we have been together for around a month or two now. I understand that when in a relationship there is a 'honeymoon' period and all that. But recently he has been seeming rather off with me, like a lot more blu... (254 words)

I found out my boyfriend lied about being married, should I keep dating him? He only sees his wife once a year

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

21 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Started dating a guy in the army back in June, it was more casual than anything else. Then the last few months it got more serious and I could tell me was falling in love with me. When I first went to his place I asked him if he was married as there was something at his that ... (371 words)

Any advice on how to stop moping around and feeling hopeless?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3381 days ago

21 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm going through a really difficult emotional time in my life. When I'm outside, I'm fine, I'm productive. But when I'm home, I lose the drive, energy and just contemplate on my problems. It's not helping because it makes me sad, torn, confused and next thing I know hours ... (101 words)

She's 18 and I'm 15. Met online. Never talked on phone. Never met in person. Should I do as we planned or what?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

21 January 2015 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello Aunts and uncles! So, I met this girl some time ago (maybe 6-ish months or more) she's 18 and I'm 15. We both have admitted to liking each other, and we've sent pictures of each other (her more than me because it's a bit more difficult to send on my end). We... (197 words)

First she flirted a lot. Now she's not replying. What should I do? Try to contact her asap this week, or wait until next week?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

21 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a great girl at a friends party on Saturday. She just flew in from the other side of the country since she is moving here (I'm in LA) and we both had a ton of common interests. She started up the conversation with me, playfully hit my shoulder, asked me a lot about ... (307 words)

He was in a FWB a few years ago with an older woman. How can I get over my disgust at what he did in the past?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

21 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My 27-year-old boyfriend went through a really rough time in his life a few years ago, which led him to make a huge mistake. He let this woman (10-15 years older than him) to throw herself at him and spend money on him just so that she could have him. To me, this is a sugar ... (314 words)

Is it time to break-up? My Gf is always sad. But now her depression is affecting me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

21 January 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - Let me start out by saying my girlfriend is depressed, I believe. And it is staying on me. A little background on me that may be relevant is that I am a 20 year old engineering student. I am a relatively level headed person. Basically on a permanent level of content in my ... (424 words)

Now some SWOT analysis makes the new guy appear better than my BF. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

21 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So....... Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a 4 months. Its not long but it feels like forever to me. Unfortunately recently I have developed feelings for another guy. My sister and i made a list of pros and cons and my boyfriend had so many more cons than the guy I ... (124 words)

How do I break up with my boyfriend of five years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

21 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to break up with my boyfriend of 5 years but just don't know how to do it. I've been wanting to end it for some time now, but don't know what to say, how to say it, where to say it?? I'm just dreading the whole thing. The thing is we met when I was 19. I'm 25 now an... (216 words)