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My boy friend lied about liking big breasts and now I feel self conscious about my small chest

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2930 days ago

14 January 2015 (F age 30-35 - Hello, this might be a bit redundant as there are some similar questions on this site. Anyway, I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and everything's great. However, I recently found out he's lied about his physical preferences. I know he did this just to spare m... (512 words

What was he thinking looking at Incest pornography?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3388 days ago

14 January 2015 (F age 36-40 - My fiance and I of 3 years just recently had a baby about 2 weeks ago. I understand men like to read and/or watch porn and I've had this talk with him a few times before because he would sneak off while i was asleep and watch it instead of having anything to do with me. Since ... (209 words

Is it weird for my husband to lay on his little sister'a lap and stroke her face?

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14 January 2015 (F age 36-40 - Is it just me, or am I normal in thinking that it is very wrong for my husband who is 27 years old to lie on a sofa with his head in his 10 year old sisters lap and start stroking her face because I personally find it weird. My friends also said it was weird. What do others ... (60 words

I'm devastated to find out my wife and brother had an affair!

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14 January 2015 (M age 51-59 - after twenty years of marriage i have just found out that my wife had an affair with my brother.this happened several years ago and had been going on for a few years.i love her so much and she says she hates herself for it.she says she's sorry.this affair seems to have happ... (84 words

I'm really embarassed to introduce my longterm boyfriend to my family, how can I deal with this situation?

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14 January 2015 (F age 30-35 - So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, though the first 3 years were long distance as he was in the military. He has met my parents and my siblings. Well I feel really ashamed to say this but up until now I have avoided my boyfriend meeting my grandparents, ev... (256 words

I need to go to college but I don't have the self confidence to do it

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14 January 2015 (M age 30-35 - hi, not a relationship question but a self confidence one; i have a steady job as a glazier, in two years my boss is retiring and and in February and march this year three people are leaving, wich may prompt my boss to retire early , so i am hoping i can find another job this ... (163 words

I broke up with her then find out she's pregnant

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14 January 2015 (M age 30-35 - Hi iv got myself into a situation.. iv been dating my girlfriend for near 7 years now and I felt our time was up.. I then had another girl flirting with me constant at work and over Christmas I let sometin happen with her.. I felt so bad that it had happened but at the same ... (171 words

Has anyone ever dated a long time friend? How did it turn out?

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14 January 2015 (F age 36-40 - Hello. I have been best friends with this guy for 8 years. Over the years, I have known that he likes me, but I always had a boyfriend and for the longest time wasn't necessarily his peer. (now that I am a mature adult, the age gap of 12 years doesn't appear as extreme to me. H... (495 words

My girlfriend doesn't touch me! How do I tell her this without upsetting her?

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14 January 2015 (F age 30-35 - Im in a lesbian relationship and I have been with my girlfriend for about 6 months we have alot of sex, but she dosnt touch me. Its always me touching her. How can I bring up to her that it bothers me a lot that I'm always giving to her and she doesn't give to me. It gets ... (88 words

How do I approach the delicate situation of having messy siblings they don't care about how they live?

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14 January 2015 (F age 36-40 - Hello. Thank you for reading my post. All advice and opinions are welcome. To attempt to keep this short as possible, I will jump to my point. I come from a very messy family. Growing up, I manage to maintain my sense of cleanliness and have always preferred a clean home. We... (422 words

Update: I Verbally Abuse My Boyfriend so He Will Pay Attention to Me

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14 January 2015 (F age 30-35 - Here's an update. After verbally abusing my boyfriend he broke up with me. But we hung out last week, and everything seemed to be back to normal. Should I ask him if we can get back together? Or should I just let it flow?... (44 words

Why do women have to be so confusing?

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14 January 2015 (M age 36-40 - i got this girl we are best friends, so she says but everyone thinks we are dating and im so confused. we got real close when my mom passed just a few months ago,she has a young daughter that i love and she loves me, so she gives me all the signs that i can be more even says it ... (191 words

I cannot compromise my morals for this man but we have about 90% of things in common. What do I do?

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14 January 2015 (F age 36-40 - I met a guy 5yrs ago and we became almost best friends for about 6mths. We went out one night with mutual friends, got very drunk after everyone else left and kissed. This happened one or two more times. Shortly after this I went abroad for a couple weeks. When I came back he ... (1097 words

Boyfriend is pressuring me into a threesome!

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14 January 2015 (F age 36-40 - Me and my fiance are very close but I feel like as many times as I talk to him about this he just wont understand we were at a party and I was the only sober one well him and his friend pressured me into some stuff the next morning he did not talk to me and he said it was my ... (169 words

I don't know if this guy likes me, yet we are basically dating.

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14 January 2015 (F age 30-35 - I have been casually dating this guy who i met about 8 months ago but we don't really discuss whether we are dating or not. In the beginning he seemed to be a lot more into me romantically but he would in front of my face tell people no, she's not my girlfriend just my friend. ... (1048 words

Should I tell my husband I almost cheated?

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14 January 2015 (F age 36-40 - So I am married two years to my childhood sweetheart, and I love him dearly. Lately we have been put to test with stress, family issues, his mentally ill mother and trying for a baby. Its all been very stressful and was starting to take its toll on me. So my well meaning ... (254 words

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